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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)139. Akitas are a tough breed.
They are a one person dog, I think, very protective. I dated a guy once with an Akita and the dog didn't like me getting near his guy. I don't trust them, personally.
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You and your ex did the best that anyone could do under the circumstances.
Sheldon Cooper
Aug 2015
#1
One of TTW objections to the New Jersey rescue was the use of individual kennels
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#150
Its better to think of it less like a domesticated pet, and more like a working dog.
AtheistCrusader
Aug 2015
#153
Ex and I did not know what an Akita was, frankly, and we are dog lovers who have been around dogs
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#5
I think that TTW cannot face giving up Yoshi, and I get that. Luckily, this shelter has personnel
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#6
Could you clarify TTW is doing temp work while looking for a job in your OP
daredtowork
Aug 2015
#121
there's no human involved in this that doesn't feel terrible this morning.....
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#21
I agree, and thank you for this post. What decent, decent people the msanthropes are. nt
Hekate
Aug 2015
#247
Jesus, what a difficult situation. I totally appreciate all of your efforts to try
bullwinkle428
Aug 2015
#19
Take someones dog in, feed it take care of it, then pay the actual owner to come walk it?
snooper2
Aug 2015
#44
Same dog that was reported to growl and go after people coming to work on TTW rental
snooper2
Aug 2015
#36
Sucks she doesn't have her dog, but she was offered a place to live WITH her dog for a year
snooper2
Aug 2015
#75
But Yoshi and TTW would have made one move- together- into a less stressful situation. And if it
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#350
YOU ARE SO MEAN!!!! How could you laff at TTW's poor dog in a miserable situation.
trueblue2007
Aug 2015
#218
Sorry to hear that Yoshi exists? That the doggie daycare exists? That MsAnthrop did her very
underahedgerow
Aug 2015
#73
Doncha know? She's protecting us from scammers! It's because she cares deeply for the well being of
underahedgerow
Aug 2015
#102
Let's hope she receives all the compassion and kindness she has shown to others.
underahedgerow
Aug 2015
#109
Does the homeless shelter know that you found the plight of someone on the verge of homelessness
JTFrog
Aug 2015
#227
She is with a temp agency--working as much as she can get. She is also signing
tblue37
Aug 2015
#152
Why in the world are you attacking me like this? BECAUSE YOU'VE BEEN SO MEAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
trueblue2007
Aug 2015
#221
Me and ex share your concern..... we didn't want to surrender Yoshi just anywhere....
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#90
Please stay in touch with the shelter and rescue, and follow what happens to him.
hamsterjill
Aug 2015
#92
I am not religious at all, yet I find myself wanting to say, "Bless you!" to you and your ex. nt
tblue37
Aug 2015
#156
It looks like you have gotten Yoshi's situation stabilized. I just wish there were a place for TTW
CTyankee
Aug 2015
#74
If it helps persuade TTW to sign over Yoshi- if he bites someone he would be put down.
KittyWampus
Aug 2015
#76
Thank you for getting Yoshi on his way to the rescue that knows his breed well
Person 2713
Aug 2015
#101
I love the breed, considered one but it's true they usually aren't good with other dogs.
Sunlei
Aug 2015
#108
Kudos to you and your ex for your efforts in this difficult situation. n/t
PoliticAverse
Aug 2015
#112
"a dude with a goofy black lab trying to care for a wolf in the middle of a city.”
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#118
And if it is mental illness, that increases her need rather than reduces it. The system should be
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#145
Here in cheap rent Kansas I had to pay $1400 up front to rent a place with my cats, and
tblue37
Aug 2015
#160
I think TTW not only needs financial help but helping setting financial goals.
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#162
It might be a combination of not having enough funds and making mistakes with what she does have.
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#173
Rightly or wrongly, TTW is extremely upset at me and ex. I'm hoping she can calm down
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#165
When my grandmother suffered a stroke in 1985, she adamantly insisted that we never, ever
tblue37
Aug 2015
#171
You know you did everything you could for your Grandma, even though she couldn't appreciate it.
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#178
I have that as one of my goals when I get older .To remember gratitude when help is needed
Person 2713
Aug 2015
#375
It is not always a bad thing- if they have some wits about them enough to socialize and can take
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#224
Just for the record, nursing home regulations prohibit restraining residents without
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#241
I know, because we discussed it. They did not feel they could handle her without restraints, so it
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#244
There are millions in similar situations. So the real solution isn't a nice billionaire
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#179
I thought I had read on the earlier posts from TT, but I could have it confused
No Vested Interest
Aug 2015
#216
she did, yes. and she made two trips to visit Yoshi, so I think still does.
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#226
Sometimes we have to step back, and this may be one of those times.
No Vested Interest
Aug 2015
#190
Unfortunately, she isn't just making a decision for herself -- she's making it for Yoshi.
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#205
To be fair to TTW, she did make it clear that she was not looking to relinquish Yoshi.
StevieM
Aug 2015
#225
I cannot tell you how accurate this post is---TTW screamed at me that Yoshi is "her property" and
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#252
Your last paragraph is everything I fear most. But it is out of my hands right now....
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#257
TTW is currently in a home where there has been violence....in fact, a housemate assaulted her. I
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#201
And I wouldn't be surprised if that large dog was part of the problem the landlord had with her.
pnwmom
Aug 2015
#203
She told me that her current landlord would not have the dog. HHer current situation, her housemate
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#207
I fear the endgame of this story...TTW is so beaten down it seems hard to see how she
CTyankee
Aug 2015
#219
I'm going by the attitude you have shown in your posts, which have been cold and mean-spirited. nt
daredtowork
Aug 2015
#321
Yes....you've nailed it. This post is exactly what is going on. I've tried...but I also
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#231
Clearly your legal training and experience have served you well in this instance.
No Vested Interest
Aug 2015
#259
Msanthrope, your EX - Moosepoop & everyone who have been helping TTW & her dog
trueblue2007
Aug 2015
#222
They did the best for the dog they could. Shelter would have held the dog for the legal 3-5 days,
Sunlei
Aug 2015
#249
Nonsense. She reclaimed him because she didn't want him going to the rescue in NJ.
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#251
Well, among other things, these threads are clear evidence that you were trying to save Yoshi
tblue37
Aug 2015
#265
Absolutely she reclaimed him because she didn't want him going to the rescue.
hamsterjill
Aug 2015
#292
I am sympathetic to your frustration, especially after you tried to help her. But look at this from
StevieM
Aug 2015
#295
agreed. and if everybody was telling her she has to give up Yoshi, that would explain
magical thyme
Aug 2015
#266
You and your ex are good people. TY so much for filling us in. It's so sad how the saga continues...
Hekate
Aug 2015
#250
Thank you for this post. I don't take TTW's rejection personally, but I am glad that finally,
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#255
Her family did steer her toward mental health services because they were concerned...
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#303
Under PA law, they had to release him, regardless of her circumstances. PA is a horrible state for
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#254
Sorry to know that TTW has threatened you and ex with theft charges, etc.
No Vested Interest
Aug 2015
#258
Well, it's an empty threat, born of anger, and I'm not taking it too seriously. I think she still
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#260
I've been in communication with Moosepoop. I don't think she has any more info than us right now...
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#270
A couple of years ago I encountered a situation where I was worried for a dog's welfare.
Vinca
Aug 2015
#276
Everyone is well aware of them and they are well aware of the services available to them.
Vinca
Aug 2015
#315
i do believe it was right to step in and help the dog- I know she can't see it could
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#313
No, she chose NOT to allow Yoshi to be fostered to a home that would tend to his medical issues.
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#338
not more than Moosepoops life, or Yoshi's - both of which she knowingly put in danger this week.
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#368
She was looking for a place to put Yoshi where she could get him back some day. nt
daredtowork
Aug 2015
#390
Yes, the situation degraded quickly and there were no better options. I do believe Misanthrope would
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#340
her terms? they put people's lives in danger- period. the alternative was to leave him "dying" in
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#342
when you beg for help- you do not get to set unreasonable terms. real life does not work that way.
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#364
It's a rough situation and I believe that many people did not understand TTW's state.
Yo_Mama
Aug 2015
#388
what really frightens me is her OTT anger and paranoia.- cannot imagine how Yoshi can cope with that
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#348
TTW was not forthcoming about Yoshi being an attack dog. That is a bigger betrayal- to put those
bettyellen
Aug 2015
#366
That's the long and the short of it......to be fair to TTW, it's incredibly difficult
msanthrope
Aug 2015
#275
You raise interesting questions. I'm not sure there are right answers.
LiberalAndProud
Aug 2015
#341
Look. We all KNEW that TTW had some mental health issues going on,which were complicating the
Sheldon Cooper
Aug 2015
#376
She didn't believe the dog even existed without a picture when this post started!
Person 2713
Aug 2015
#381