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In reply to the discussion: To the other women wondering where the good men are anymore, [View all]Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)66. It DOES mean different things to different women
When guys in the Lounge post something like, "Why do all women like bad boys and reject nice guys like me"? I know that they're clueless.
In general, though, a REAL nice guy (as opposed to a self-pitying sniveler) is kind and considerate even to people he isn't romantically interested in. The self-pitying sniveler is indifferent to other people except for putting on a facade of bland "niceness" to impress women whom he is superficially attracted to, mostly based on their looks.
On the whole, though, you should go where the kinds of women you like are likely to be.
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ya. mine isnt perfect either. and yet, those nonperfections dont bother me at all
seabeyond
May 2012
#21
These women weren't as smart or strong as they wanted the world to believe...
Darth_Kitten
May 2012
#17
mahina... that is all i have around me. they arent hard to find. i hear ya. nt
seabeyond
May 2012
#20
all it means to me is a person with good character and principles. i dont think it is a tough
seabeyond
May 2012
#31
In my personal life there are more than enough good, fine decent, kind, mature, smart, supportive...
Little Star
May 2012
#35
Maybe they should look beyond trying to meet men at the gym, bars and night clubs
Sen. Walter Sobchak
May 2012
#42
HOWEVER, I once perused a dating site for Democrats, and half the men's profiles
Lydia Leftcoast
May 2012
#80