I'd like to think I'm one of the good women and I've known several of the good men and women but the mere existence of both good men and good women doesn't necessarily mean that everyone can or will be imperfectly perfectly paired off. Whatever mechanism brings people together - accident or fate - is just as likely to leave some alone, some perpetually cycling through relationships (both good and bad) while others settle down into some semblance of happily ever after at relatively young ages. I think it's best to embrace all of the possibilities rather than seeing only one version of the experience of romantic love as being ideal.