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In reply to the discussion: To the other women wondering where the good men are anymore, [View all]Blasphemer
(3,261 posts)85. There are a lot of good men and women
I'd like to think I'm one of the good women and I've known several of the good men and women but the mere existence of both good men and good women doesn't necessarily mean that everyone can or will be imperfectly perfectly paired off. Whatever mechanism brings people together - accident or fate - is just as likely to leave some alone, some perpetually cycling through relationships (both good and bad) while others settle down into some semblance of happily ever after at relatively young ages. I think it's best to embrace all of the possibilities rather than seeing only one version of the experience of romantic love as being ideal.
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ya. mine isnt perfect either. and yet, those nonperfections dont bother me at all
seabeyond
May 2012
#21
These women weren't as smart or strong as they wanted the world to believe...
Darth_Kitten
May 2012
#17
mahina... that is all i have around me. they arent hard to find. i hear ya. nt
seabeyond
May 2012
#20
all it means to me is a person with good character and principles. i dont think it is a tough
seabeyond
May 2012
#31
In my personal life there are more than enough good, fine decent, kind, mature, smart, supportive...
Little Star
May 2012
#35
Maybe they should look beyond trying to meet men at the gym, bars and night clubs
Sen. Walter Sobchak
May 2012
#42
HOWEVER, I once perused a dating site for Democrats, and half the men's profiles
Lydia Leftcoast
May 2012
#80