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Control-Z

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25. I will argue
Sun May 27, 2012, 04:26 PM
May 2012

that young people can become socially/conversationally inept. I'm witnessing it in my life.

When you can't get a word in edgewise because the people present are so consumed by, and immersed in social media/texting/facebook/chatting (though it appears that instant messaging has become a thing of the past for young people), there is a problem.

All three of my children will choose written over verbal communication 99% of the time. When they do verbalize, whatever it is about, it is rushed, brief, inaccurate, poorly conveyed and even resentful at times. I usually have to dig for the pertinent information I am looking for. It is as if they no longer know how, or even care to speak effectively.

It appears as if, by refusing to interact in the moment, they can take the time to contemplate a witty answer (to everything).

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dNDBDDBmcdkvndjvndnJ randome May 2012 #1
What is facebook? Life Long Dem May 2012 #2
were you going to communicate w/FB friends in some other way instead and chose to use FB? msongs May 2012 #3
It's a cartoon. kentuck May 2012 #4
like Broderick May 2012 #5
Hide. MineralMan May 2012 #6
alert Voice for Peace May 2012 #15
. EFerrari May 2012 #7
Not really. It depends on how you use it. MineralMan May 2012 #8
I actually got this cartoon off Facebook... kentuck May 2012 #9
I figured. There's lots on Facebook that I just skip, of course. MineralMan May 2012 #10
I will argue Control-Z May 2012 #25
Interesting.. kentuck May 2012 #26
I can see where that would be of concern. MineralMan May 2012 #30
Are they tweens or teens? riderinthestorm May 2012 #32
Lol. I'm sorry but Control-Z May 2012 #37
I emailed an old friend to ask her how she was doing. Ilsa May 2012 #11
Intimacy matters. jp11 May 2012 #17
I agree w/ you Completely. nt Ilsa May 2012 #34
Not at all. It keeps me in touch with family and friends. YellowRubberDuckie May 2012 #12
I love Facebook. Webster Green May 2012 #13
No more (IMHO) than text messages. Edweird May 2012 #14
Nnnnnnope. cherokeeprogressive May 2012 #16
Meaningful conversation died long before Facebook. Speck Tater May 2012 #18
From the people that brought you... Scootaloo May 2012 #19
"This new thing will be the end of all civilization!" Posteritatis May 2012 #20
Pfft... TELEVISION killed meaningful conversation. annabanana May 2012 #21
Friggin' cuneiform, man. How far we have fallen. (nt) Posteritatis May 2012 #22
Yeah, I blame the advent of runes. Fire Walk With Me May 2012 #35
But radio DID kill meaningful conversation. randome May 2012 #31
I think it's terrible, people spend all their time posting little comments on the internet... CJCRANE May 2012 #23
FB is for people with whom I don't want a meaningful conversation Bluenorthwest May 2012 #24
Well, this old person (63) finds Facebook to be SheilaT May 2012 #27
Hang on. I'll answer after I post this kitteh picture I found on my wall. HopeHoops May 2012 #28
IDK rug May 2012 #29
Television already did that decades and decades ago.. n/t Fumesucker May 2012 #33
Not at all, no XemaSab May 2012 #36
OMG. LOL. YMMV Rincewind May 2012 #38
irony Sea-Dog May 2012 #39
Aziz Ansari had a bit one time: Initech May 2012 #40
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