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Control-Z

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37. Lol. I'm sorry but
Mon May 28, 2012, 01:06 AM
May 2012

I've tried everything you've suggested and I'm afraid it's out of my hands. They've all graduated HS at this point.

The 26 YO is the worst of the bunch. She started the behavior once she had already left home. I say something now and then but she hasn't lost the ability, she just doesn't use it.

The other two, well one is my 21 YO man-child who attended school for the learning disabled for 4 years to gain the courage to even try to write. (Severe dyslexia) I will never discourage him from writing, or reading, though I insist on the best possible conversation when we are speaking.

The youngest just finished her first year in college. She lives at home and I'm on her all the time about it. She's just 18 and quite the gifted writer. It is when I read one of her papers that the contrast in her ability to communicate verbally is the most glaring. And, of course I point it out, every time, at the risk of alienating her.

The one thing they have learned from me, at least, is to use full sentences with correctly spelled words when they text, which is a good thing.

I believe this whole thing may be a bigger problem then a lot of people think and it will be to the detriment of "generation text" should they choose to ignore social skills. I also think that soon enough they'll figure out talking is more efficient than writing on a day to day, moment to moment, basis and some will find they need to catch up to both the generations before and after theirs.

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dNDBDDBmcdkvndjvndnJ randome May 2012 #1
What is facebook? Life Long Dem May 2012 #2
were you going to communicate w/FB friends in some other way instead and chose to use FB? msongs May 2012 #3
It's a cartoon. kentuck May 2012 #4
like Broderick May 2012 #5
Hide. MineralMan May 2012 #6
alert Voice for Peace May 2012 #15
. EFerrari May 2012 #7
Not really. It depends on how you use it. MineralMan May 2012 #8
I actually got this cartoon off Facebook... kentuck May 2012 #9
I figured. There's lots on Facebook that I just skip, of course. MineralMan May 2012 #10
I will argue Control-Z May 2012 #25
Interesting.. kentuck May 2012 #26
I can see where that would be of concern. MineralMan May 2012 #30
Are they tweens or teens? riderinthestorm May 2012 #32
Lol. I'm sorry but Control-Z May 2012 #37
I emailed an old friend to ask her how she was doing. Ilsa May 2012 #11
Intimacy matters. jp11 May 2012 #17
I agree w/ you Completely. nt Ilsa May 2012 #34
Not at all. It keeps me in touch with family and friends. YellowRubberDuckie May 2012 #12
I love Facebook. Webster Green May 2012 #13
No more (IMHO) than text messages. Edweird May 2012 #14
Nnnnnnope. cherokeeprogressive May 2012 #16
Meaningful conversation died long before Facebook. Speck Tater May 2012 #18
From the people that brought you... Scootaloo May 2012 #19
"This new thing will be the end of all civilization!" Posteritatis May 2012 #20
Pfft... TELEVISION killed meaningful conversation. annabanana May 2012 #21
Friggin' cuneiform, man. How far we have fallen. (nt) Posteritatis May 2012 #22
Yeah, I blame the advent of runes. Fire Walk With Me May 2012 #35
But radio DID kill meaningful conversation. randome May 2012 #31
I think it's terrible, people spend all their time posting little comments on the internet... CJCRANE May 2012 #23
FB is for people with whom I don't want a meaningful conversation Bluenorthwest May 2012 #24
Well, this old person (63) finds Facebook to be SheilaT May 2012 #27
Hang on. I'll answer after I post this kitteh picture I found on my wall. HopeHoops May 2012 #28
IDK rug May 2012 #29
Television already did that decades and decades ago.. n/t Fumesucker May 2012 #33
Not at all, no XemaSab May 2012 #36
OMG. LOL. YMMV Rincewind May 2012 #38
irony Sea-Dog May 2012 #39
Aziz Ansari had a bit one time: Initech May 2012 #40
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