My sister died today.

[southernyankeebelle]

59. My brother died about 3 yrs ago at 39 yrs old. When he finally was towards the end and my

youngest sister who was the closest in age and talked with him. He kept telling her he was so tired. Finally she said to him if your ready to go they would be ok and not to be afraid to let go. He was finally able to let go and finally died in peace. For the longest time he wasn't ready. He had his wife but she was worthless in the whole situation. Thank god they didn't have any children. But to this day I still hope and pray he is fine. My aunt told me that it was peaceful and she had a long talk with him and he was ready. On the other hand I kept think he would say to me I'm to young to go and he would cry. I just didn't know what to say. He suffered so long and he never smoked a day in his life. But you got to give them the best support you can. You made her passing easier for her. My wonderful Aunt who died last year always said she hopes to die a happy death. Meaning you would be happy if you could die in her sleep. By the time she died she was seeing dead family members and asking me about my uncle her husband had I seen him that day. He died over 20 yrs ago. My poor aunt. I felt so bad for her but on the other hand she saw some of her dead family members.