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In reply to the discussion: Military Moms Breastfeeding in Uniform Stir Controversy [View all]southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)My father-in-law retired after 24 yrs both Vets of WWII, Korea and VN and wounded. Plus my husband was in for 21 yrs and retired. I also worked for the military throughout my work experiences. Yes I am well affair of the lifestyle. I happened to love it very much. Before Desert Storm there was no family support system. I remember when my mother who could hardly speak a word of english. We travelled from PA all the way to Calf. by train back then and my 7 yr old brother interpreting for my mother. Getting on a military ship. My mother travelled across country with 4 little kids. My dad was already overseas in the Philippines at the time. Then we went on to Germany after that tour on a military plane. I wouldn't trade my life's experiences for anything. Now when my husband was in during the last big build up. My husband was a senior nco and I helped with the enlisted wives who didn't have a clue what was going on. Many of the young ladies were new to the military family. I made sure whoever needed me had my number. We met weekly and made sure everyone who needed help got it. I sure do know what its about. Believe me I do. I just see things differently. I remember growing up in the military life. I never knew anything else. I just remember times differently maybe then you do. It doesn't make me wrong. It doesn't make you wrong. Don't question my love of my country or my patriotism. I have both. You don't really know me. I remember a different time when things were different and in some respects better. I didn't wear the uniform but I remember at 6 yrs old and living on a base and the worry that they had us prepared to leave on a bus to get out of the country in the middle of the night. My mother sitting there with 4 little children. Telling our Filipino friend if anyone besides him come through that door use the long knife. No I travelled the world and would do it again over and over. Within my own family there is over 60 yrs of service. I am sure you served with honor and am not questioning your service.