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Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
36. It appears I am not the only one deeply pissed off and irritated by "rich 'splainin'"
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 04:43 AM
Jun 2016

I often resist the urge to poorsplain to the obviously financially secure posters here that keep telling us how well we are all doing, how we are in recovery, how we are on the right track.

What about access to not worrying about your electricity being cut off because you are juggling bills?
What about access to a dignified, well-funded mass transit system?
What about access to education and opportunity?


Are questions I ask on a daily basis, and what might shock some of the cheerleaders here is that those are the most common thoughts to enter the minds of the average American in this day and age, yes, I said average, but it really is more like the majority of Americans. The majority of us have been left behind in an economy where we lose more each day as the well to do gain more each day, what makes matters worse is that we no longer appear to have much in the way of representation no matter how we vote.

I would give what little remains of my life for a party of the people, a labor party, a party that is concerned about the rising and rampant poverty all around the insulated bubbles of the few remaining middle class members that love to tell me how great we are doing, how progressive our party is, how our leaders "feel our pain".

I would poorsplain to them what the true reality is as a party that once represented the people has for the past thirty years abandoned us to decay as a people as completely as they have abandoned the crumbling bridges roads and empty factories that once were the life blood of a people first marginalized, then ignored, and now completely invisible. - it is as if the majority of Americans do not exist.

I would do this splainin' but such is condescension and anger does not translate well as condescension but rather rage repressed becomes expressed, and this insulated bubble of cheerleading "sports team" enthusiasts that do not have the worries of the common man are quite fragile and easily offended, they would ban me from this site were I to attempt to poorsplain to them the nature of the reality of the suffering all around them they are blind to as my condescension would turn to rage before the first paragraph were completed.

You see, it is not just the rich that keep 'splainin to us "how we need to be" to not be struggling and losing, but also those that carry their water from the insulated middle class that are the only ones spoken to by our representatives, the house servants to the rich that exist within our party that are skeeved out by a class they fear they will one day join if they don't ally themselves to the rich splaining servants of the upper crust that call themselves representatives to the people.

If any of them truly cared about anyone but themselves, if any of them cared about most of their fellow citizens, they would not cheer on and idolize those that have shaped a party that once served the people into a golem fit only to further enrich the already rich using nothing more than soft rhetoric and broken promises to the middle class that carry their water while ignoring the rest, the majority, the struggling .... the invisible that are losing or have lost everything to policies chosen by those that they swoon over and adore as if they were teenagers smitten by a heart throb.

There are exceptions within these insulated bubbles of middleclassdom that do see us and do see with deeper insight how their class too shall fall to the greed of the wealthy that own our representatives, there are exceptions as well within our representative bodies that can see the invisible majority, they are the ones that have my respect as advocates that show true empathy and disgust at the indefensible state we find ourselves in and who would, like statesmen of a time now past, attempt to effect change that will perhaps not make the majority wealthy, but at least comfortable enough to survive without the constant dread of becoming homeless and dead. But alas, they need no one to explain to them because they already have eyes to see.

To the rest, you are cowards or complicit idiots that perhaps feel you will one day rise above your middle class status to trample us beneath your feet like the heroes you idolize that have brought this country to a state where an economic recovery is now defined as the rich gaining much more of the monetary resources they will never need or likely spend while the majority fall further into poverty. House servants are what they are, and could only maybe learn from working in the fields for a bowl of gruel and a hope that the next day they will be able to break their backs yet again for yet one more bowl, one more day alive. I do not respect such individuals and attempts to 'poorsplain to them would more likely result in a lynch mob directed towards me than a change of mind or heart.

This is a bad day today (as perhaps evidenced by my lengthy rambling response), one more acquaintance went homeless today and we are all of us trying to help around here but with little success save temporary floor accommodations and calls to the mostly ineffective representatives that work within a tattered and barely existent safety net apparatus ravaged a few decades ago with bi-partisan support and a well adored sports team favorite named Clinton.

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The only people I know who have 5 or more houses StarTrombone Jun 2016 #1
So, you know them. Can you get me their autographs? Oh, Kerry married into the money. tonyt53 Jun 2016 #2
It was revealed in his divorce proceedings StarTrombone Jun 2016 #5
Some people have 5 houses..4 of them may be called rental income, hardly millionaires. Tikki Jun 2016 #11
I'd cower behind implication as well LanternWaste Jun 2016 #3
John McCain has 8 houses, although when asked during his campaign he was unsure of the total Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #6
McCain and Romney are fucking Republicans StarTrombone Jun 2016 #9
I don't think you're interested in what the op had to say tenderfoot Jun 2016 #57
Its the GOP that are always attacking the poor and complaining about taxes lewebley3 Jun 2016 #12
So what? zentrum Jun 2016 #15
thank you z DonCoquixote Jun 2016 #25
Plus won! Enthusiast Jun 2016 #37
Isn't that cute. lapislzi Jun 2016 #16
Hey, John McCain famously cannabis_flower Jun 2016 #21
You forgot John McCain.... AlbertCat Jun 2016 #22
Romney is another, though I don't know him. Agnosticsherbet Jun 2016 #27
Get out much? jamal49 Jun 2016 #34
Liberals are hypocrites? That is your message? Enthusiast Jun 2016 #35
"Limousine liberals!" klook Jun 2016 #47
There is so much more in the post than what you chose Mira Jun 2016 #48
Well, aren't you special. nt. MH1 Jun 2016 #50
I know people like that too and they NEVER whine about having to pay taxes. tenderfoot Jun 2016 #56
Are they the only ones you know .. coco77 Jun 2016 #58
People who complain about their taxes do it because they have little say The2ndWheel Jun 2016 #4
That sums it up nicely... Phentex Jun 2016 #7
But the phrase "free stuff" only comes up when speaking of benefits to low or middle income folks Fumesucker Jun 2016 #10
Nothing is free: but the budget priories choices are skewed to the wealthy 1%: lewebley3 Jun 2016 #14
and our elections system is skewed DonCoquixote Jun 2016 #31
The young don't vote: that is why it skewed: Sanders doesn't tell them it hardwork lewebley3 Jun 2016 #62
Plus won! Enthusiast Jun 2016 #38
Of course The2ndWheel Jun 2016 #61
The GOP people don't believe they owe this country anything: even when they lewebley3 Jun 2016 #13
ok here is where that falls DonCoquixote Jun 2016 #26
Every argument has a hole in it somewhere The2ndWheel Jun 2016 #60
Like the guy I know who spent sorefeet Jun 2016 #8
Unfortunately, bringing public schools into the debate is a no-no lapislzi Jun 2016 #17
And we educated most all of them. n/t jtuck004 Jun 2016 #18
I completely agree with this post. Stonepounder Jun 2016 #19
even sadder is the amount of people on this forum(DU in general) w0nderer Jun 2016 #33
Some of them aren't people. Enthusiast Jun 2016 #39
LOL n/t w0nderer Jun 2016 #51
How you can tell you're being manipulated Major Nikon Jun 2016 #20
Called talking man to a mouse and kairos12 Jun 2016 #24
Plus won! Enthusiast Jun 2016 #40
Right on. These are voters who have to be reckoned with. They are the big part of ancianita Jun 2016 #23
Kickin' for the truth! Faux pas Jun 2016 #28
A picture is worth a thousand journalists... Octafish Jun 2016 #29
Plus won! Enthusiast Jun 2016 #41
I know some of them who are very religious too. Triana Jun 2016 #30
xposted to 'working poor' for more visibility w0nderer Jun 2016 #32
It appears I am not the only one deeply pissed off and irritated by "rich 'splainin'" Dragonfli Jun 2016 #36
I will see that and raise you. DonCoquixote Jun 2016 #42
Plus won! Well said, Dragonfli! Enthusiast Jun 2016 #43
+1 this..so much this n/t w0nderer Jun 2016 #49
"they" are not as good as "me" quaker bill Jun 2016 #44
It's basically just freepers and Clinton supporters Doctor_J Jun 2016 #45
Are you saying "Clinton supporters are authoritarian personalities"? MH1 Jun 2016 #52
Read Bob altmeyers book on authoritarian personalities. It's free and downloadable Doctor_J Jun 2016 #54
Open your eyes and look around you. athena Jun 2016 #59
Also, it's so hypocritical. ananda Jun 2016 #46
Irony! liberal N proud Jun 2016 #53
The Anti Tax People are Destroying this Country McKim Jun 2016 #55
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