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cwydro

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61. Yes, I sure do.

Fri Jun 3, 2016, 05:00 PM

Jun 2016

And I hate that for you.

I actually walked in on my partner in bed with someone else.

So yeah, I sure understand a mind fuck. That was years ago, but I remember it vividly. I left and walked a good two miles in blowing snow back to our house (we were at a "friend's&quot ha. Then I just waited until morning.

Told her it was over, and I left within a week. (This happened overseas, so that part was not so easy.)

I don't know how long ago this happened to you, but time will eventually heal. Nah, you won't forget it, but crap, I reckon that's what we have to deal with as humans.

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