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missingthebigdog

(1,233 posts)
36. I am glad that this part of the journey is over.
Tue Jun 28, 2016, 12:16 PM
Jun 2016

Now the real work begins for you and your family.

When a loved one is taken from us through crime, we are forced to set the grief aside somewhat, and focus on getting justice. Once the trial is over, however, there is still a grieving process to get through.

It is even harder to get through that process when it is delayed- the rest of the world has moved on, and there is an expectation that the passing of time has made things less painful for the family.

It is time now to focus on the loss of Derek, and not on the monster that took him. I hope your family's love for him, and for one another, will sustain you through this. Don't hesitate to reach out to others for help. There are many here who care.

Road Rage (Update) [View all] H2O Man Jun 2016 OP
So glad this lunatic is where he belongs, forever. Thanks for the update, Water Man. nt ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2016 #1
K&R. nt tblue37 Jun 2016 #2
There is no such thing as true "justice" in this case. But I am thankful that monster cannot hurt Coventina Jun 2016 #3
I am pleased that justice, in this case, was upheld. My condolences to you and your family. floriduck Jun 2016 #4
This is good to read JustAnotherGen Jun 2016 #5
I hope the trial outcome will help with the heart ache of your family. n/t dixiegrrrrl Jun 2016 #6
: onecaliberal Jun 2016 #7
Our Justice system cannot remove grief ... Martin Eden Jun 2016 #8
Justice malaise Jun 2016 #9
Peace and love to you and your family H2O Man. Scuba Jun 2016 #10
Happy Birthday Derek Dylan. Raster Jun 2016 #11
k & r Scientific Jun 2016 #12
Glad to see the system worked and this lunatic will be put away for life. denvine Jun 2016 #13
My dear H20 Man... CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2016 #14
Even with parole, he'll be inside a long time. malthaussen Jun 2016 #15
Hope it brings some closure Roy Rolling Jun 2016 #16
Good ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2016 #17
Please understand that I know what you are going through Loki Jun 2016 #18
we know that nothing will ever make up for the loss of your family members, but at least niyad Jun 2016 #19
Well, Some Modest Consolation After All ProfessorGAC Jun 2016 #20
I'm so sorry that you lost Derek LittleGirl Jun 2016 #21
I know, from experience, Sissyk Jun 2016 #22
May he rot reign88 Jun 2016 #23
My sympathies, H2O Man. calimary Jun 2016 #24
Peace to you, H20 Man Samantha Jun 2016 #25
Still chervilant Jun 2016 #26
Just wondering: do ex-cops and COs still get protective custody in prison? Fritz Walter Jun 2016 #27
He did while H2O Man Jun 2016 #46
. KMOD Jun 2016 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #29
There's comfort in knowing this man will be deprived of his freedom mountain grammy Jun 2016 #30
It is enraging that someone like that ends up with a job in the criminal justice field. corkhead Jun 2016 #31
I seem to recall you saying that this piece of fecal matter is an ex-cop? Downtown Hound Jun 2016 #32
Right. H2O Man Jun 2016 #47
I am pleased to see justice for your family. Raine1967 Jun 2016 #33
The thug won't see the light of day now. gademocrat7 Jun 2016 #34
I'm glad he got life x 2... gregcrawford Jun 2016 #35
I am glad that this part of the journey is over. missingthebigdog Jun 2016 #36
Thanks for the update, H2O Man ReRe Jun 2016 #37
This closes the book on everything but you & your family's grief. williesgirl Jun 2016 #38
My thoughts are with you (nt) MaggieD Jun 2016 #39
I have followed your updates since the start. Moostache Jun 2016 #40
What got me was how he acted like the cops bringing him into court were his personal honor guard. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2016 #41
I know it will take time and the loss will forever be felt. I wish you all peace. Solly Mack Jun 2016 #42
Peace and love to you and yours. May Derek Dylan's name be remembered for a blessing. Hekate Jun 2016 #43
Wonderful news. Justice. But I know it will never mend sinkingfeeling Jun 2016 #44
I don't believe in "closure".. but I hope that this sentence annabanana Jun 2016 #45
Now maybe you can exhale, and find a bit of rest, knowing your efforts on the families' behalf FailureToCommunicate Jun 2016 #48
Peace. progressoid Jun 2016 #49
So glad to hear about it flying_wahini Jun 2016 #50
I am pleased that an ex-cop received a tough sentence AwakeAtLast Jun 2016 #51
I hope you onethatcares Jun 2016 #52
You have my condolences H20 Man. I have been catching up reading about this. Rex Jun 2016 #53
So sorry this happened to your family struggle4progress Jun 2016 #54
Deepest sympathy to you and your family GeoWilliam750 Jun 2016 #55
Hugs to you and your family. voteearlyvoteoften Jun 2016 #56
Good to hear this update ms liberty Jun 2016 #57
Be well, and at peace. Some measure of justice has been done. nt msanthrope Jun 2016 #58
Love and Light to you and your family Melissa G Jun 2016 #59
So glad the thug got a long sentence. I hope he never gets out. MH1 Jun 2016 #60
Good thoughts to you and your family through this ordeal JHB Jun 2016 #61
I'm sorry for you and your family's loss, H2O Man. Uncle Joe Jun 2016 #62
All I can say is thank you thank you thank you judge passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #63
K & R SunSeeker Jun 2016 #64
... Warren DeMontague Jun 2016 #65
Healing blessings to you and your family LiberalEsto Jun 2016 #66
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