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In reply to the discussion: Road Rage (Update) [View all]missingthebigdog
(1,233 posts)36. I am glad that this part of the journey is over.
Now the real work begins for you and your family.
When a loved one is taken from us through crime, we are forced to set the grief aside somewhat, and focus on getting justice. Once the trial is over, however, there is still a grieving process to get through.
It is even harder to get through that process when it is delayed- the rest of the world has moved on, and there is an expectation that the passing of time has made things less painful for the family.
It is time now to focus on the loss of Derek, and not on the monster that took him. I hope your family's love for him, and for one another, will sustain you through this. Don't hesitate to reach out to others for help. There are many here who care.
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So glad this lunatic is where he belongs, forever. Thanks for the update, Water Man. nt
ChisolmTrailDem
Jun 2016
#1
There is no such thing as true "justice" in this case. But I am thankful that monster cannot hurt
Coventina
Jun 2016
#3
I am pleased that justice, in this case, was upheld. My condolences to you and your family.
floriduck
Jun 2016
#4
we know that nothing will ever make up for the loss of your family members, but at least
niyad
Jun 2016
#19
Just wondering: do ex-cops and COs still get protective custody in prison?
Fritz Walter
Jun 2016
#27
It is enraging that someone like that ends up with a job in the criminal justice field.
corkhead
Jun 2016
#31
I seem to recall you saying that this piece of fecal matter is an ex-cop?
Downtown Hound
Jun 2016
#32
What got me was how he acted like the cops bringing him into court were his personal honor guard.
Spitfire of ATJ
Jun 2016
#41
I know it will take time and the loss will forever be felt. I wish you all peace.
Solly Mack
Jun 2016
#42
Peace and love to you and yours. May Derek Dylan's name be remembered for a blessing.
Hekate
Jun 2016
#43
Now maybe you can exhale, and find a bit of rest, knowing your efforts on the families' behalf
FailureToCommunicate
Jun 2016
#48