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kestrel91316

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1. Not me. My dad came back from Nam.

Reply to mrmpa (Original post)

Tue Aug 2, 2016, 01:57 AM

Aug 2016

But the 11th year of my life nearly broke me.

Even when they don't die or get hurt, your life changes irrevocably.

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How many of us DU'ers belong to a gold star family..... [View all] mrmpa Aug 2016 OP

Not me. My dad came back from Nam. kestrel91316 Aug 2016 #1

correct Skittles Aug 2016 #3

I'm not, but a lot of us were in uniform and... TreasonousBastard Aug 2016 #2

Me... lapfog_1 Aug 2016 #4

Evening... DonRedwood Aug 2016 #11

Gratefully, all of my loved ones survived. KMOD Aug 2016 #5

I think only one person in my extended family ever went into war sakabatou Aug 2016 #6

Second cousin WWII Justice Aug 2016 #7

My cousin was killed in Iraq. skylucy Aug 2016 #8

Thank you for sharing DonRedwood Aug 2016 #12

One soldier but not reported as a military death trixie Aug 2016 #9

My mother lost her older brother in WW2 and my grandparents' wounds never healed. pnwmom Aug 2016 #10

hugs DonRedwood Aug 2016 #13

Lost my Uncle Bud in the Battle of Tarawa, WW II. Body was never recovered. colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #14

My dad trained Green Berets during Vietnam DonRedwood Aug 2016 #15

It sounds like you had a wonderful father who did his best for all those young men. pnwmom Aug 2016 #25

Also want to mention my Dad. colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #16

Just one more post - colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #17

This message was self-deleted by its author auntpurl Aug 2016 #18

Thankfully, none of my BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #19

Just to add: BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #20

I've stated before......... mrmpa Aug 2016 #32

In my experience, I discovered BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #40

I am in the middle of 5 generations who served TexasProgresive Aug 2016 #21

Thank you to everyone who responded and to your families for your service. Justice Aug 2016 #22

Blessedly, no. Staph Aug 2016 #23

I do not (nt) bigwillq Aug 2016 #24

My Grandmother was a Gold Star Mother liberal N proud Aug 2016 #26

First Cousin.... Peacetrain Aug 2016 #27

My dad's oldest brother died at the battle of the Bulge. My wife has an uncle still on the Arizona. tonyt53 Aug 2016 #28

My uncle was killed in WWII meow2u3 Aug 2016 #29

Distant cousins lost a son early on in Afghanistan. GreenPartyVoter Aug 2016 #30

On my dad's side, Loki Aug 2016 #31

Not me. Dad was too old for the wars and brother too young. lostnfound Aug 2016 #33

We all do UTUSN Aug 2016 #34

2 cousins, one uncle and my aunt Kaky - raven mad Aug 2016 #35

My dad survived WWII and Korea mountain grammy Aug 2016 #36

I nearly died once in combat, and again at the evac hospital pinboy3niner Aug 2016 #37

My partner's uncle was killed on The Indianapolis. Hassin Bin Sober Aug 2016 #38

My uncle- son of Italian immigrants - died fighting for America in WW2 in the Pacific wishstar Aug 2016 #39

This is small consolation, I know... pinboy3niner Aug 2016 #42

My Uncle John was 21 when he was killed at Guadalcanal. redwitch Aug 2016 #41

My BIL' s stepfather Ex Lurker Aug 2016 #43