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mrmpa

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32. I've stated before.........
Tue Aug 2, 2016, 04:18 PM
Aug 2016

that if you want to meet a pacifist, talk to a veteran of war. My dad certainly was. He made sure that my older brother went to college for his student deferment.

There was also a kid on our street, whose father had died. When it was time to graduate high school, he knew he was going to be drafted. He talked to my dad (a 16 year member of the Marine Corps). My dad talked him into enlisting in the Air Force. My dad's reason for this at the time, was that it was the only branch of the service where enlisted men did not fight in battle.

When my dad died, I remember this kid saying "he was just like a father to me."

When I wanted to join the service, at that time if a woman was under 21, they had to have their parent(s) signature to do so, my parents wouldn't do it, however my dad had me contact a US Senator who was trying to get women admitted to the Service Academies (this was 1974). In late '75 or early '76, I had a call from this Senator telling me to let him know what Academy I wanted to attend. By then I had 2 years of college under my belt & didn't want to start all over again. God was my dad smart.

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Not me. My dad came back from Nam. kestrel91316 Aug 2016 #1
correct Skittles Aug 2016 #3
I'm not, but a lot of us were in uniform and... TreasonousBastard Aug 2016 #2
Me... lapfog_1 Aug 2016 #4
Evening... DonRedwood Aug 2016 #11
Gratefully, all of my loved ones survived. KMOD Aug 2016 #5
I think only one person in my extended family ever went into war sakabatou Aug 2016 #6
Second cousin WWII Justice Aug 2016 #7
My cousin was killed in Iraq. skylucy Aug 2016 #8
Thank you for sharing DonRedwood Aug 2016 #12
One soldier but not reported as a military death trixie Aug 2016 #9
My mother lost her older brother in WW2 and my grandparents' wounds never healed. pnwmom Aug 2016 #10
hugs DonRedwood Aug 2016 #13
Lost my Uncle Bud in the Battle of Tarawa, WW II. Body was never recovered. colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #14
My dad trained Green Berets during Vietnam DonRedwood Aug 2016 #15
It sounds like you had a wonderful father who did his best for all those young men. pnwmom Aug 2016 #25
Also want to mention my Dad. colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #16
Just one more post - colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author auntpurl Aug 2016 #18
Thankfully, none of my BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #19
Just to add: BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #20
I've stated before......... mrmpa Aug 2016 #32
In my experience, I discovered BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #40
I am in the middle of 5 generations who served TexasProgresive Aug 2016 #21
Thank you to everyone who responded and to your families for your service. Justice Aug 2016 #22
Blessedly, no. Staph Aug 2016 #23
I do not (nt) bigwillq Aug 2016 #24
My Grandmother was a Gold Star Mother liberal N proud Aug 2016 #26
First Cousin.... Peacetrain Aug 2016 #27
My dad's oldest brother died at the battle of the Bulge. My wife has an uncle still on the Arizona. tonyt53 Aug 2016 #28
My uncle was killed in WWII meow2u3 Aug 2016 #29
Distant cousins lost a son early on in Afghanistan. GreenPartyVoter Aug 2016 #30
On my dad's side, Loki Aug 2016 #31
Not me. Dad was too old for the wars and brother too young. lostnfound Aug 2016 #33
We all do UTUSN Aug 2016 #34
2 cousins, one uncle and my aunt Kaky - raven mad Aug 2016 #35
My dad survived WWII and Korea mountain grammy Aug 2016 #36
I nearly died once in combat, and again at the evac hospital pinboy3niner Aug 2016 #37
My partner's uncle was killed on The Indianapolis. Hassin Bin Sober Aug 2016 #38
My uncle- son of Italian immigrants - died fighting for America in WW2 in the Pacific wishstar Aug 2016 #39
This is small consolation, I know... pinboy3niner Aug 2016 #42
My Uncle John was 21 when he was killed at Guadalcanal. redwitch Aug 2016 #41
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