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(2,065 posts)People should not have sex with any incapacitated person, whether in a relationship or not.
Anyone who willing drinks to the point of incapacitation is responsible for any crime they commit while incapacitated. A crime victim is a crime victim, regardless of whether they're incapacitated.
Your son should be taught to not have sex with drunk girls that he's not in a relationship with. That really is the best policy.
Most of the college rape stories in the news involve women who are passed out or almost passed out, which is obviously rape.
On edit: I think the male is most often the rapist in drunk/drunk situations because of the mechanics of sex. When two extremely drunk people have sex, it is usually the male causing the physical act to occur. I have heard of a scenario where a man was taken advantage of while extremely drunk and the women caused the physical act to occur. I considered her to have raped him. She bragged and laughed and I was disgusted.