I used to tear down others to lift myself up

[Buckeye_Democrat]

1. Good for you! I think everyone is that way to some extent.

It's very easy for me to be critical because my mother was the same way! She at least "explained" herself sometimes, saying that she didn't want her children to be arrogant. Maybe "rationalized" would be a better term?

I don't think I try to hurt others for the sake of hurting them, though. It's more of a "I'll take you down a few pegs" urge.

I mostly try to keep my mouth closed when an urge to criticize others arises, especially around people close to me. My oldest brother (his high school's debating champ) lets it spew out more often, and it's not surprising that lots of people don't care for his company. So much of it doesn't really amount to a hill of beans either. It's been hard to convince him to change (given his "oldest brother syndrome&quot , but he's been improving too.

Anyway, if you and others around you are happier...