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In reply to the discussion: Christmas and wanting [View all]

Rorey

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36. Good plan
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 08:19 AM
Dec 2016

Yes, it's those commercials that doom parents.

I have always enjoyed decorating for Christmas in the past, but this year I have done absolutely NO decorating. I'm just not in the mood. The husband and I still have nearly daily dissent over the election. I'm not going to get over it and just go back to life as usual. It was a travesty. Even after trump's atrocious cabinet picks so far, my husband STILL has hope that he's going to do okay. He doesn't have enough common sense to realize how horrible this is for our country. I'm not sure I have the patience to wait for things to play out so he can see what he voted for and appropriately repent.

Anyway, we didn't have Thanksgiving. My kids all have their own families and did things with the in-laws (with my absolute blessing). It eliminated the need for them to try to make it around to see all of the family. They were fine with it. I did make a small turkey for the jerk, even though I'm vegetarian. I did a terrible job on it. Didn't brine it. Overcooked it. Possibly on purpose. Husband said it was dry. Oops. I told him that I should probably not make one again because I have apparently lost my touch. The truth is that when something is done with anger in one's heart it probably isn't going to turn out well.

We'll likely do the usual Christmas brunch just so the family can get together for that. I'll probably do minimal decorating right before the day. So far the husband hasn't even mentioned that no decorating has been done. Maybe he knows why.

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Christmas and wanting [View all] Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 OP
Celebrate Winter Solstice and just give everyone a log :) Donkees Dec 2016 #1
A cheese log!... PoliticAverse Dec 2016 #8
Wow... I didn't think it was possible to write that much about cheese balls. Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #10
Cooking & Baking tends to get carried away with cheese balls. rug Dec 2016 #12
Some things are for eating, others are for reading. n/t PoliticAverse Dec 2016 #14
And I didn't know cheese had balls!! Kilgore Dec 2016 #26
Christmas cheese does Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #29
Even a Chocolate Log! Donkees Dec 2016 #11
Chocolate log Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #20
Damn, if that didn't look like another kind of log Control-Z Dec 2016 #30
Love it! Guilded Lilly Dec 2016 #51
We differ malaise Dec 2016 #2
I will go buy myself something when I need it. Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #3
People ask because they know that folks return stuff they don't want malaise Dec 2016 #5
"Trump seeks law requiring 'Merry Christmas' greeting"! Beartracks Dec 2016 #4
LOL! Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #7
Merry Christmas, dumbasses. Beartracks Dec 2016 #15
That's the Christmas spirit :) n/t Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #22
That's why my family quit gifts for adults in 2001 csziggy Dec 2016 #6
That's nice. Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #9
It used to be we'd spend one holiday with each family csziggy Dec 2016 #13
Maybe you'll have a relaxing holiday this year Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #17
It will be good to just relax csziggy Dec 2016 #21
I hope you have a relaxing Christmas this year then. Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #28
Thanks - and you try to have a good holiday season, too csziggy Dec 2016 #33
Sounds like a rough year all the way around Rorey Dec 2016 #37
When I was younger, it was fun to find or make just the right gifts for people pinboy3niner Dec 2016 #16
Volunteering at food bank sounds like a great thing to do Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #19
If the kids aren't TOO young, it can be a family activity. nt pinboy3niner Dec 2016 #24
Aw, so sweet to remember the canines. Rorey Dec 2016 #40
I start stressing out at Halloween every year. femmocrat Dec 2016 #18
Feel the same way Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #25
I feel for you, femmocrat Rorey Dec 2016 #41
I wish! femmocrat Dec 2016 #45
Are you not particularly fond of her? LOL Rorey Dec 2016 #46
No, that's not the reason. She is just next in line for the honor. femmocrat Dec 2016 #50
It's so easy to just say no RB TexLa Dec 2016 #23
Good for you. Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #27
no gifts. handmade34 Dec 2016 #31
I would like this much better Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #32
Your Christmases sound lovely Rorey Dec 2016 #47
Hatchimals for everyone! Rorey Dec 2016 #34
First time I heard about Hatchimals was this morning on the radio Zing Zing Zingbah Dec 2016 #35
Good plan Rorey Dec 2016 #36
I haven't done any decorating, either. Only put out the kitchen Christmas towels mnhtnbb Dec 2016 #39
Well, I got the towels out, but.... Rorey Dec 2016 #42
you made me laugh. mnhtnbb Dec 2016 #43
Now that you mention it.... Rorey Dec 2016 #48
I hear you. It was the worst when our kids were little. mnhtnbb Dec 2016 #38
I'm almost ashamed to admit it Rorey Dec 2016 #44
OMG. That has to be tough mnhtnbb Dec 2016 #53
I eliminated mercuryblues Dec 2016 #49
I will keep Christmas in my heart since Orange Hitler won the election workinclasszero Dec 2016 #52
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