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Bozvotros

(961 posts)
71. A few last thoughts.....
Tue Jan 24, 2017, 02:13 PM
Jan 2017

You say extremely uncomfortable, I say miserable. I think misery may be too strong now but I did note a very immediate and significant lightening of her affect when she changed dance partners.

I agree with your observation that The FLOTUS role has to be a hard one for her to pick up. Nothing she has done that I know of could have possibly prepared her for the decorum and expectations of this one.

You "detected someone who is extremely uncomfortable with a role that she did not seek - a role in which she is expected to do, say, and act in certain ways, while the eyes of the entire world are watching." I am not sure how you know what she is thinking or feeling but you decided to share it and I am not appalled by it. I also admit it is a much more charitable view than the one I put forward.

I don't have any idea what she knows about Michelle Obama Michelle is very popular among a majority of Americans but a very outspoken minority has said heinous things about her and I'd bet Melania probably has heard more from them than Michelle's fans. I don't think any first lady with the possible exception of Hillary Clinton faced as much out and out hatred and malicious remarks as Michelle Obama. Maybe that terrifies Melania too.

For the most part I did not post my observations as FACTS: In fact my subject was a question if anyone else noticed my observation. I did not use the word "because" because I was not asserting cause and effect or saying that no other opinion was acceptable. I said she looks like she might get sick just listening to him. I said it was obvious to me she would rather not be around him and doesn't like him a bit. I said I didn't think she would be around long. I did say that they can't even fake comfort or affection which is what I still think. I accept others might think differently.

Bottom line is that neither of us knows for sure what Melania actually thinks about her husband or for that matter what he thinks about her but both of us are free to speculate and have.

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It's a business relationship. nt SunSeeker Jan 2017 #1
She's on a whole different level than me - LOL LeftInTX Jan 2017 #2
You could be right... Bozvotros Jan 2017 #8
All well and good Nwgirl503 Jan 2017 #28
His prenups and nondisclosure agreements are famously ironclad. nt tblue37 Jan 2017 #42
She seems very...uncomfortable. Speaking at the jmg257 Jan 2017 #3
She's a liar and a phony just like her husband. PearliePoo2 Jan 2017 #4
The Unbearable Happiness of Being the First Couple A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #5
He looks awful LeftInTX Jan 2017 #10
not sure how to just post the pic for non-facebook folks A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #11
he looks awful... chillfactor Jan 2017 #15
i love Merrill Markoe's comment: A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #16
Dead eyes Charles Bukowski Jan 2017 #17
Or how about this pic? area51 Jan 2017 #24
i'm not seeing any pic at all A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #26
I've seen happier faces at funerals. Feeling the Bern Jan 2017 #29
Compare Skidmore Jan 2017 #30
yep, there's two tuned-in folks... A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #31
I caught a few seconds of their dance before I shut off the TV- she leans way, way away from him. NBachers Jan 2017 #6
That whole family has we "we are glad we have money, but are not happy" look. Hoyt Jan 2017 #7
this one? A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #12
That's it! Thanks. Hoyt Jan 2017 #14
Turkey baster... Rollo Jan 2017 #9
Whatever goes on in that marriage ... NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #13
peoplewho live their lives demanding others share their morality are fair game nt msongs Jan 2017 #18
I agree amuse bouche Jan 2017 #19
Leave the entire disgusting klan alone!!!! A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #22
Make me!!!!! amuse bouche Jan 2017 #34
Do not make me stop this car. A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #35
Still won't work. I'm never a passenger amuse bouche Jan 2017 #37
Don't make me come up there then, or even better... A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #44
Send Skittles she kicks a**. nt tblue37 Jan 2017 #61
When did Trump or Melania ... NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #21
Disagree Nance canetoad Jan 2017 #25
You are assuming that Melania is abused. NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #38
Well, I still disagree canetoad Jan 2017 #39
I quite pointedly stated ... NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #40
True True...what happens in a marriage is private...but when you are in the public eye TrekLuver Jan 2017 #46
Of course there will always be speculation. NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #52
"If Melania is unhappu with her marriage, she can walk away from it." Doreen Jan 2017 #54
You are assuming facts not in evidence. NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #57
Nance, not sure why you are taking such offense at this thread. Bozvotros Jan 2017 #59
What "upsets me" ... NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #64
OK Bozvotros Jan 2017 #67
Read your own OP. NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #68
I did. You make some good points. Bozvotros Jan 2017 #69
Thank you for the response. NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #70
A few last thoughts..... Bozvotros Jan 2017 #71
Again, thanks for the response. NanceGreggs Jan 2017 #72
It is not about her, it is about him and how he is going akbacchus_BC Jan 2017 #20
Yes, it is all about him but she still Doreen Jan 2017 #55
gold diggers don't expect to actually have to WORK Skittles Jan 2017 #23
I believe it's called "pay for play". democratisphere Jan 2017 #27
Check out their "dance" rumdude Jan 2017 #32
I'm in the minority here. I actually think they love each other. Lucinda Jan 2017 #33
I agree actually. Their first inaugural dance wasn't polished riderinthestorm Jan 2017 #36
She's very uncomfortable with public attention, it's not her culture, she doesn't know what to do betsuni Jan 2017 #56
All sorts of psychodrama could be involved, but like many young women, she could easily have tblue37 Jan 2017 #62
Verbal abuse HoBeKaT Jan 2017 #41
A picture is worth 10,000 words A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2017 #43
.. Cha Jan 2017 #45
I have a co worker who does this...she doesn't wait for people...walks ahead of them. TrekLuver Jan 2017 #48
It's not very caring of the other person especially in this kind of situation.. Cha Jan 2017 #49
No not at all...and I have many examples of this behavior from her. I'm sure this is nothing TrekLuver Jan 2017 #51
Exactly.. common courtesy. Cha Jan 2017 #53
Who the hell knows what the hell is really going on in that "relationship"...I for one am not TrekLuver Jan 2017 #47
She hates him. erinlough Jan 2017 #50
Well, I feel for her... Blue_Roses Jan 2017 #58
Me too loyalsister Jan 2017 #60
The happiest she looked that evening, was when she was dancing with that young soldier Lady_Chat Jan 2017 #63
Don't care LynnTTT Jan 2017 #65
She's trapped. I feel very sad for her. nt GliderGuider Jan 2017 #66
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