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cyclonefence

(5,166 posts)
19. I want to be on your side
Fri May 19, 2017, 02:50 PM
May 2017

but yes, I think if someone in a public position had used any kind of slur against any group, I would want to know about it. DU is a site I trust--people here reliably challenge sources, as do I, so I am secure in repeating information that is verified here. And I think it's important for people like you (and to a lesser extent me, only because my consciousness was late in being raised) to know about those slurs and make sure everyone here is alert to them.

I would imagine that "sissy" is a term that might be used even among fairly enlightened people who aren't really thinking about what they are saying, and that kind of casual sexism--like casual bigotry of any kind--is imho the most dangerous kind. We kind of had the same situation here, with the OP. Our calling attention to the offensive word got it removed, and maybe sensitized some people to the offensiveness of the term. A Teaching Moment, if you will, that would not have occurred if the offensive term had not appeared here at all.

I would go even further and say that it's our duty to report and call out offensive language, and the more offensive the language is, the more important it is that it be noticed, reported and reacted to.

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I am not comfortable with "sissy-in-chief" cyclonefence May 2017 #1
It's sexist. athena May 2017 #2
Agree but: Ligyron May 2017 #10
Your reply is sexist, too. athena May 2017 #12
Well, I'll be damned... Ligyron May 2017 #20
I see that the OP cyclonefence May 2017 #13
Would you say the same thing athena May 2017 #14
I want to be on your side cyclonefence May 2017 #19
Remove 'sissy' please. Find something else. 'Asshole' in chief works for me. CurtEastPoint May 2017 #3
I still prefer Red Don. nt FailureToCommunicate May 2017 #4
Cute! maddiemom May 2017 #7
Delete the "Sissy" part Motownman78 May 2017 #5
There are a lot of ways to describe Trump Progressive dog May 2017 #6
But only "childish name calling" rock May 2017 #11
Nah. tavernier May 2017 #8
Snowflakes are so pretty that I have been... 3catwoman3 May 2017 #9
Thank you for the edit. athena May 2017 #15
Don't call him that for christs sake Kentonio May 2017 #16
Trump has always been a whiny punk... Wounded Bear May 2017 #17
Glad VJ stopped blubbering long enough to see clearly that Trump did not become the President nt geek tragedy May 2017 #18
he is not now, will NEVER by my President Skittles May 2017 #21
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