I am losing my memory.

[maddiemom]

137. Bless you.

When my mom was ninety and in her last years in a nursing home, she asked one of her caregivers to post a sign outside her door, apologizing to any one if she didn't recognize them, or seemed out of it when they visited. She really always knew her family and those close to her, but was also largely bedridden due to a neurological disorder diagnosed as M.S. originally (long story). I was struck by your reference to politics because Mom was very interested and active in politics and even greeted and introduced JFK when he came through town campaigning in 1960. One of the things that made me saddest was her loss of interest in politics somewhere after her mid-eighties. You're doing the right thing in assisted living, as long as you have thoroughly vetted your facility. My mom started out in assisted living and there were plenty of activities and transportation available to outside events, taing the worry out of trying to stay as active as possible. This was great for my mom, who was widowed, but there were also more than a few couples. Best of luck to you and your husband!