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Chemisse

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48. You seem to have a dim view of parents in general.

Mon May 30, 2016, 04:24 PM

May 2016

As a 'professional' you are likely exposed to the worst of the worst - and therefore are likely to see the worst of motivations in parents around you.

Really, the vast majority ARE 'basically good and doing their best.' And even the really bad ones still love their children.

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Japanese boy missing in mountains after being left by parents as 'punishment' [View all] Liberal_in_LA May 2016 OP

I see the Japanese have really interesting punishments, just like Koreans and the Chinese Feeling the Bern May 2016 #1

The family's hesitance in reporting that they had left him there Chemisse May 2016 #2

To think that that represents some kind of prevailing Japanese attitude is so wrong. Bonobo May 2016 #5

This is NOT reflective of those countries cultures IronLionZion May 2016 #11

When you live in China like I do and read weekly stories like this in China Daily Feeling the Bern May 2016 #13

Thank you for understanding that I'm American! IronLionZion May 2016 #24

Well you don't know shit about Japan, kid. Bonobo May 2016 #26

Which gives you a deeper understanding of enlightenment May 2016 #34

What broad brush? I mentioned China and Korea (two places I've lived) Feeling the Bern May 2016 #36

Perhaps from the OP? enlightenment May 2016 #39

Broad brush? All conservatives all the same? Feeling the Bern May 2016 #50

At some point, adults like myself Bonobo May 2016 #51

Agree. Parenting styles differ, sometimes by saltpoint May 2016 #23

Because Americans never "punish" their kids inappropriately. AllyCat May 2016 #14

Never said Americans are blameless. I'm talking about my neighbors here in Asia. Feeling the Bern May 2016 #16

Yeah, but you never even mentioned Americans The2ndWheel May 2016 #28

When Americans do shit wrong, I say it. But you think what you want, Sunshine. Feeling the Bern May 2016 #29

Sorry, I was agreeing with you The2ndWheel May 2016 #37

Hey it's all over the world . Dishonor deaths , some church in the US killed a teen for disobeying Person 2713 May 2016 #30

The fact this incident made big news indicates it is rare mainer May 2016 #33

First of all, such a punishment would shock the average Japanese person. Nitram May 2016 #45

My parents were always threatening to do this when I was a child. Chemisse May 2016 #3

How awful! The poor little kid! Rhiannon12866 May 2016 #4

A 7 year old throwing stones at strangers & passing cars? Divernan May 2016 #6

Even kids with perfect parents can be brats, especially on long, boring family trips. Chemisse May 2016 #8

Oh, come on! Throwing rocks at people/passing cars? Divernan May 2016 #12

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. Chemisse May 2016 #31

As a NIMH research fellow, I co-administered parenting workshops. Divernan May 2016 #35

The problem with your comments.... ciaobaby May 2016 #38

I specifically did NOT take the words of the parents without question. Divernan May 2016 #41

Parents were absolutely wrong. ciaobaby May 2016 #42

You seem to have a dim view of parents in general. Chemisse May 2016 #48

Can't speak for Japan, but sociopathy is common in China. It's called "Xiao Wang Zi" or 4-2-1. Feeling the Bern May 2016 #15

Nope, you can't. Japan is nothing like China. nt Bonobo May 2016 #27

The parents have lied once already, why not twice ? OnDoutside May 2016 #7

Yeah I suspect there is more to the story...nt Jesus Malverde May 2016 #52

Maybe somebody ought to have saltpoint May 2016 #9

I hope this guy is found safe and saltpoint May 2016 #10

Can't speak for Japan, but in China, I can tell you the cops will not get involved. Feeling the Bern May 2016 #17

The story is covered in saltpoint May 2016 #18

Which is why I said "I can't speak for Japan since I never lived there." Feeling the Bern May 2016 #20

Another poster has indicated that saltpoint May 2016 #22

Just saw the news, search was stopped after dark tonight. betsuni May 2016 #19

Variation on the dog ate my homework lie Divernan May 2016 #21

I remember threatening to leave my kid at the side of the road mainer May 2016 #25

Yep. The equivalent of I'll turn this car around... Phentex May 2016 #32

The "DUH" headline of the year rusty fender May 2016 #40

They expected to return to a terrified (but forevermore compliant) child. Chemisse May 2016 #47

I hope he's found. I hope he's alive Arazi May 2016 #43

I think his father killed him obamanut2012 May 2016 #44

The problem with that theory, Chemisse May 2016 #46

"I thought it might be taken as a domestic violence." Dude, that's manslaughter! McCamy Taylor May 2016 #49