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Irish_Dem

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43. If there were red flags with this child, the family had some choices to make.
Sat Jan 17, 2026, 06:31 AM
1 hr ago

For example if I was a therapist for this family:

They would have to promise to make sure the guns were secured at ALL times.
In writing.

Or they would have to go cold turkey on the guns and get them out of the house.

LE can certainly store their firearms at the police barracks or station if need be.

And if they live in a violent neighborhood they need to consider relocation.

I have worked with cases like this with a suicidal or homicidal child or spouse in the family.

The guns must be removed from the home or I have no choice but to report it to the appropriate
authorities, the police, child services, adult (elder) services as the case may be.

A number of professions are mandated reported which means they are required by law
to report dangerous situations to the authorities.

And in this case if the other parent knew the child could get into the safe, charges should be brought against her.
This is child abuse, neglect, etc. Negligent homicide.

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What a sick segment of society we have in this country that worships guns among all things. hlthe2b 14 hrs ago #1
Without a gun, it would be much harder for an 11 yr old to kill an adult male. Irish_Dem 14 hrs ago #2
At least it was in a safe. The boy found the key in a drawer. erronis 13 hrs ago #7
My nephew was getting into my brother's gun safe when he was 5 and 6. Igel 13 hrs ago #13
Parents often underestimate their child's intelligence and perseverance. Irish_Dem 11 hrs ago #20
What do you meant by "he could listen when my brother unlocked it?" Polybius 7 hrs ago #37
back with pushbutton phones Old Crank 3 hrs ago #42
The tones made sense for telephones. sl8 1 hr ago #44
This is still parental abuse/neglect/negligence. Irish_Dem 11 hrs ago #19
There is something disturbed about the kid iemanja 10 hrs ago #21
Absolutely. This child is not your usual...ect, ect.. He shouldn't be in society. chouchou 10 hrs ago #23
Yes of course. An 11 y/o child does not kill his father in cold blood without a back story. Irish_Dem 10 hrs ago #24
There may have been a reason for him keeping guns Polybius 6 hrs ago #38
If there were red flags with this child, the family had some choices to make. Irish_Dem 1 hr ago #43
IPer the article, it was a keyed lock, not combination. The boy knew niyad 9 hrs ago #26
He found the key n/t Lulu KC 8 hrs ago #34
I guess at least one less gun worshiper now. erronis 14 hrs ago #3
Beyond mean DenaliDemocrat 13 hrs ago #10
Another gun death approved by Charlie Kirk Norrrm 12 hrs ago #14
Not everyone with a gun is a "gun worshiper" Polybius 6 hrs ago #39
This happened in South Central Pennsylvania in a very small county (Perry) Wiz Imp 14 hrs ago #4
40 years ago (1986), my friend's son was seven years old. no_hypocrisy 14 hrs ago #5
Wow - that's horrible - sorry for your friend/family. erronis 13 hrs ago #8
40 Years ago DenaliDemocrat 13 hrs ago #11
They had cable . . . . . no_hypocrisy 13 hrs ago #12
Not 40 years ago DenaliDemocrat 8 hrs ago #35
Not 40 years ago Polybius 7 hrs ago #36
Why did the kid have the combination? BidenRocks 13 hrs ago #6
Thought the same thing myself NickB79 13 hrs ago #9
Key lock, not combination, and the boy knew where the key was. niyad 9 hrs ago #27
Based on at least some accounts - cab67 8 hrs ago #31
Welcome to trump's America. mwb970 12 hrs ago #15
Guns make a scary noise. Aussie105 12 hrs ago #16
more information - cab67 12 hrs ago #17
Thank you for that article. It paints a very sad picture. What a horrible loss. erronis 12 hrs ago #18
I just posted the same thing before realizing you'd done so Lulu KC 8 hrs ago #33
There is going to be a lot of commentary offered by both sides. . . Collimator 10 hrs ago #22
The father was careful to keep guns locked in the safe FakeNoose 9 hrs ago #25
He found the key while looking for his video game system. cab67 9 hrs ago #30
Yes! This is EXACTLY why guns PoindexterOglethorpe 9 hrs ago #28
This message was self-deleted by its author LudwigPastorius 9 hrs ago #29
This message was self-deleted by its author Lulu KC 8 hrs ago #32
The child probably learned from ICE that that kind of shit is okay when you feel dissed. n/t Beartracks 6 hrs ago #40
well, i guess he (kid) showed him (dad) orleans 5 hrs ago #41
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