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14. Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job
Fri Mar 20, 2026, 04:07 PM
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Hegseth said "family after family" of service members killed urged the administration to “not stop until the job is done." The father said he appreciated the compassion that Hegseth and Trump showed him during their visit.

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/father-servicemember-killed-iran-war-never-told-hegseth-finish-the-job-rcna264297

WASHINGTON — Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth met privately Wednesday with the families of six service members who died in the Iran war and, in a press briefing the next morning, said the message he got was consistent and supportive.

“What I heard through tears, through hugs, through strength and through unbreakable resolve was the same from family after family. They said, ‘Finish this. Honor their sacrifice. Do not waver. Do not stop until the job is done,’” Hegseth said.

One of the people he met at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware was Charles Simmons. His 28-year-old son, Tech. Sgt. Tyler H. Simmons, was among the six crew members killed when their refueling plane crashed in Iraq last week.

Simmons recalled his exchange differently.

“I can’t speak for the other families. When he spoke to me, that was not something we talked about,” he told NBC News in an interview Thursday.

Simmons said he spoke separately to Hegseth and President Donald Trump at Dover and was grateful for the warmth that both men showed him.

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The family should sue Hegseth. Chasstev365 Friday #1
GQP have no shame................. Lovie777 Friday #2
Someone in this administration lied? Ray Bruns Friday #3
"Finish the job, Sir!" sop Friday #4
don't forget the rippling muscles. Javaman Friday #5
Trump only appoints shameless liars surfered Friday #6
They are conmen. They lie to manipulate people. It ain't rocket science. Midnight Writer Friday #7
If I ever met either of these sociopaths, I would not experience warmth. suegeo Friday #8
Whiskey Pete hallucinating again. republianmushroom Friday #9
These bastards have no shame.. Playingmantis Friday #10
It's all cosplay COL Mustard Friday #19
Right-wingers don't speak in truth, they speak in propaganda mdbl Friday #11
now we need the other families (5 i think) to come out and say what happened, what was said. orleans Friday #12
Hegseth was probably drunk again Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Friday #13
More likely, he was getting flak from Trump for news of $pending on lobsters, crab legs, fancy steaks getting out Attilatheblond Friday #16
Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job LetMyPeopleVote Friday #14
"Finish the job Sec.Hogshit. Grab a rifle and take oasis Friday #15
And who confirmed this guy for this department.......... turbinetree Friday #17
I'm sure the Lord told that to Whiskey Pete COL Mustard Friday #18
I highly doubt people who just lost a child Skittles Yesterday #20
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