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SWBTATTReg

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5. A shame but all elderly drivers go through this process. My dad the same thing, but in his case, they pulled

Reply to Omaha Steve (Original post)

Sat Jul 4, 2026, 07:02 PM

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him over at the Lake of the Ozarks (some 50 miles away from home), and were nice enough to point him in the right direction to get home (2 lane roads in the middle of the Ozarks). My dad told me not to tell Mom, but I eventually did, fear of him causing harm to himself and/or others.

Every family have to go through this, some independence is valued, but how far does one go? Must consider others on the road besides yourselves.

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Paul Pelosi in hit-and-run in Napa County wine country, car left with major damage, authorities say [View all] Omaha Steve Yesterday OP

Time to take his license away Bluestocking Yesterday #1

You add a rather serious prior head injury to being 83 yo in the first place AZJonnie Yesterday #2

Should have Rebl2 22 hrs ago #13

Dude Lemon Lyman Yesterday #3

Yup. Leaving the scene of a major accident shows a loss of critical thinking skills. erronis Yesterday #4

A shame but all elderly drivers go through this process. My dad the same thing, but in his case, they pulled SWBTATTReg Yesterday #5

our town in a blue county of NJ NJCher 22 hrs ago #8

This is very nice and good for the families and seniors involved. Sounds like we need to have more of these SWBTATTReg 1 hr ago #19

Wanted to elaborate more on this ... my brother was going to move into my Mom's house at the Lake of the Ozarks after SWBTATTReg 1 hr ago #20

Had Rebl2 22 hrs ago #15

There's a good chance he shouldn't be driving blue_jay 23 hrs ago #6

We had to take my moms car away from her after multiple Tree Lady 23 hrs ago #7

It was a difficult conversation with my dad. hunter 22 hrs ago #10

Penalty could be up to 6 months jail according to the statute MichMan 22 hrs ago #9

I really doubt they would do that to an 83 year old. LisaL 22 hrs ago #12

I doubt they will file any charges at all given who he is MichMan 20 hrs ago #16

Oh, the MAGA's will love this, of course. hamsterjill 22 hrs ago #11

The French Laundry? Brother Buzz 22 hrs ago #14

Way too many bad drivers on the road, snot 7 hrs ago #17

A lot of speedsters too, sometimes I am glad to see police just waiting for them on busy steets Beringia 7 hrs ago #18