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5. I spend a significant amount of time with people with ASD...
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 09:21 AM
Apr 2014

I'm aware that there is a 'spectrum'. I thought the video was a little over the top too, but it is about ignorant things that people say - and only an ignorant person would offer to give someone a hug with a diagnosis of a disorder that includes 'not wanting to be touched'. Whether you believe its a defining characteristic or not, it's not that it's an insult to the autistic person, it's a display of ignorance on the part of the person making the offer. That recommendation is no less ignorant than the question 'have you tried not being autistic'.

I don't think the video was insensitive - I thought it was kind of blunt. I have a 22 year old autistic son and the video looks like a video he would make. She seemed authentic to me.

I have mild asperger's and am extremely bipolar. You gotta hear the shit I've been told. Nanjing to Seoul Apr 2014 #1
Everybody needs a hug. Helen Borg Apr 2014 #2
A lot of autistic people don't like to be touched. At all. Eom Blanks Apr 2014 #3
There is a lot of variability... Helen Borg Apr 2014 #4
I spend a significant amount of time with people with ASD... Blanks Apr 2014 #5
My daughter is autistic... Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2014 #6
I don't touch people; greiner3 Apr 2014 #9
I think they took Asperger's syndrome out of the DSM 5. eom Blanks Apr 2014 #12
Yes, they did. nt Helen Borg Apr 2014 #15
The poster you responded to said 'A lot' not 'all'. AtheistCrusader Apr 2014 #14
This is true, i am that way mostly nolabels Apr 2014 #10
Wouldn't it be better to say "people with autism" rather than define the person as "autistic?" Glorfindel Apr 2014 #7
It depends on the preferences of the individual. HuckleB Apr 2014 #8
Thank you! That makes it very clear Glorfindel Apr 2014 #13
my best friend has an autistic daughter dembotoz Apr 2014 #11
GoTeamKate: "Stop Making the Conversation Controversial" proverbialwisdom Apr 2014 #16
Derp. HuckleB Apr 2014 #17
More derp from the anti-vaccinc crowd. HuckleB May 2014 #19
Does your curiosity and concern extend to what people say to parents of children with autism, too? proverbialwisdom Apr 2014 #18
This is really excellent! Thanks so much for posting... Rhiannon12866 May 2014 #20
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