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greiner3

(5,214 posts)
9. I don't touch people;
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 12:17 PM
Apr 2014

This does have many down sides as I find it very hard to initiate conversations and have trouble getting dates.

Even then I don't initiate the hugging 'process' until I know them quite well but if they make the slightest first move I'll reciprocate.

I HATE crowds and/or crowded places i.e. malls, carnivals, state fairs, busy sidewalks and will go out of my way to run errands during bad weather as there are so many fewer people.

I never thought of myself as being on the spectrum until Asperger's syndrome became popularized.

Growing up my so-called peers called me strange and different and have embraced these labels because I would have being the norm; vive la difference.

So I too at least can emphasize with the young woman but I appear pretty normal until I get to know the person and actually this makes a difference because there are so many people 'prejudiced' against the syndrome because of sensational news stories and movies and it takes a kind hearted person along with someone who can reason to take it to the next step, especially in a romantic way.

I have mild asperger's and am extremely bipolar. You gotta hear the shit I've been told. Nanjing to Seoul Apr 2014 #1
Everybody needs a hug. Helen Borg Apr 2014 #2
A lot of autistic people don't like to be touched. At all. Eom Blanks Apr 2014 #3
There is a lot of variability... Helen Borg Apr 2014 #4
I spend a significant amount of time with people with ASD... Blanks Apr 2014 #5
My daughter is autistic... Dr Hobbitstein Apr 2014 #6
I don't touch people; greiner3 Apr 2014 #9
I think they took Asperger's syndrome out of the DSM 5. eom Blanks Apr 2014 #12
Yes, they did. nt Helen Borg Apr 2014 #15
The poster you responded to said 'A lot' not 'all'. AtheistCrusader Apr 2014 #14
This is true, i am that way mostly nolabels Apr 2014 #10
Wouldn't it be better to say "people with autism" rather than define the person as "autistic?" Glorfindel Apr 2014 #7
It depends on the preferences of the individual. HuckleB Apr 2014 #8
Thank you! That makes it very clear Glorfindel Apr 2014 #13
my best friend has an autistic daughter dembotoz Apr 2014 #11
GoTeamKate: "Stop Making the Conversation Controversial" proverbialwisdom Apr 2014 #16
Derp. HuckleB Apr 2014 #17
More derp from the anti-vaccinc crowd. HuckleB May 2014 #19
Does your curiosity and concern extend to what people say to parents of children with autism, too? proverbialwisdom Apr 2014 #18
This is really excellent! Thanks so much for posting... Rhiannon12866 May 2014 #20
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