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31. Sending positive vibes -

Mon May 7, 2012, 01:14 PM

May 2012

we have had similar issues with my husband's parents. Mid 80s and they have deteriorated the past couple years. It's very difficult. Almost lost dad last year, this year it was mom having a stroke. We'd like to move them closer but kind of afraid that would do more harm than good. It has been tough watching my husband deal with it.

I'll be hoping for the best possible outcome and that at the very least you can keep her comfortable.

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Vibes, prayer, good wishes ... needed in the worst way [View all] Bake May 2012 OP

Of course, Bake. HappyMe May 2012 #1

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Oh, my dear Bake... CaliforniaPeggy May 2012 #3

There's no comfort to be had. Bake May 2012 #4

She might be suffering less than you. PassingFair May 2012 #18

Mom's pretty mad at everybody right now, for taking her out of her house Bake May 2012 #20

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Vipes to you, Bake. LNM May 2012 #39

I'm sorry. GoCubsGo May 2012 #40

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my mom had dementia JitterbugPerfume May 2012 #43

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mom didn't always know me JitterbugPerfume May 2012 #44

Thinking of you Bake and keep us updated! riderinthestorm May 2012 #46

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I'm so sorry... hamsterjill May 2012 #48

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Ask the doctors to check her for Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus too. beac May 2012 #50

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So glad you have her in a good place. I know that will help you worry (a little) less. beac May 2012 #58

So sorry this is happening - haele May 2012 #52

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Vibes your way. I know how difficult this is. NCTraveler May 2012 #62

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