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[mr_lebowski]

16. You know, unless a female clearly told me different, I was exactly that way too!

A serial monogamist, I never sought to bed young ladies just to bed them, I did so because I genuinely liked them, always ... unless they made clear to me that they were just looking for some no strings fun. That was not frequent, but it did happen a few times, growing up.

However ... whether your courting, dating, bf/gf, married ... you must gain 'enthusiastic consent' every time, right?

So the 'yes/no' question, in a very practical sense, can come up practically daily, can't it?