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In reply to the discussion: 10 Things Men Find Unattractive [View all]hyphenate
(12,496 posts)has never asked those questions. I swear!
That's why every guy she seems to fall for is a loser. A REAL loser.
She says she doesn't like "nice" guys. I think some women have major self-esteem problems. Anyone who has had incest, abuse, alcoholism, drug addictions, or worse thrown at them growing up is likely to repeat that same behavior in their own lives.
Some women are told during their growing up that they're no good, and that they are going to end up to be either trollops or "just like their mothers." I don't know about guys, but women as children have a great deal more fragility when it comes to these things. Being told you're worthless makes you want to die, or marry some abuser that is just like the one who is belittling you.
I have never seen my sister stand up to any man in her life. She has had enough trouble with them, but never once was she secure enough to tell them to fuck off.
I'm no nun, but I prefer being alone to being with some loser who gets his rocks off by putting down women.