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applegrove

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14. If you catch the tail end of an insult you should plant your feet, look directly

Reply to rbnyc (Original post)

Wed Dec 7, 2011, 11:33 PM

Dec 2011

at the people and say "ouch, that really hurt". Apparently your regular office bullies don't know what to say to that since they have been doing all the talking behind your back.

If it is more insidious than that I would get out of there....because you can't get away from abuse while you are at work so it can do damage to your health if you stay. Take care of yourself.

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Mean people are talking about me behind my back! [View all] rbnyc Dec 2011 OP

Here are the emoticons... ellisonz Dec 2011 #1

It's a leadership issue. rbnyc Dec 2011 #4

Then turn around! Tsiyu Dec 2011 #2

That's actually great advice. rbnyc Dec 2011 #3

You are very welcome Tsiyu Dec 2011 #5

You're in their heads. Iggo Dec 2011 #6

Oooh... rbnyc Dec 2011 #7

Well, if it makes you feel any better, even the nice ones are talking behind your back. kayakjohnny Dec 2011 #8

No rbnyc Dec 2011 #9

I've been there zanana1 Dec 2011 #10

...I thought this was going to be about me REP Dec 2011 #11

Mean People Suck - especially when they are 0ld enough to know better LynneSin Dec 2011 #12

Thanks Lynne rbnyc Dec 2011 #13

If you catch the tail end of an insult you should plant your feet, look directly applegrove Dec 2011 #14

It is toxic. rbnyc Dec 2011 #15