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PassingFair

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1. When you and your wife are gone they will still have each other.
Thu Dec 22, 2011, 02:34 PM
Dec 2011

If everything goes according to "plan".

My girls are 3-1/2 years apart.

There is no greater joy for me than to
hear them laughing together.

Truth.

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When you and your wife are gone they will still have each other. PassingFair Dec 2011 #1
"You are a huge b***h with a sickening voice, don't ever touch my DOG!" ScreamingMeemie Dec 2011 #12
Oh alright, I didn't say they laughed ALL the time! PassingFair Dec 2011 #21
Yes but . . . . elleng Dec 2011 #22
hard. really really, much harder for the first 4, 5 yrs. especially the first couple years. seabeyond Dec 2011 #2
How old is your first? Brickbat Dec 2011 #3
current kid: 1.6 yrs yurbud Dec 2011 #8
It is more work, we have three kids Burma Jones Dec 2011 #4
There are pros and cons HeiressofBickworth Dec 2011 #5
Not a parent myself, but a great quote from a friend about the subject of work to # of kids: beac Dec 2011 #6
It is more work, but it's worth it. surrealAmerican Dec 2011 #7
It's a lot more work and they may not end up playing with each other riderinthestorm Dec 2011 #9
If my brother and I were playing together MountainLaurel Dec 2011 #11
My husband and I privately called our youngest "coyote chow" for the longest time. riderinthestorm Dec 2011 #18
I got this ... the calculation changs over time ... JoePhilly Dec 2011 #10
More work. HappyMe Dec 2011 #13
more work shanti Dec 2011 #14
Well, with one, you always know who did it. Curmudgeoness Dec 2011 #15
I like having two. And for them, the pressure's not so intense. nolabear Dec 2011 #16
Do it. Have another child. bigwillq Dec 2011 #17
My parents had five kids... one_voice Dec 2011 #19
MUCH more work. Having one child prepares you almost not at all for having two Orrex Dec 2011 #20
Look at it this way, if one takes all your time, two can't take much more. shraby Dec 2011 #23
Have another one XemaSab Dec 2011 #24
Mine are 8 years apart. The funny thing is, the older one always comes down to the younger's level ScreamingMeemie Dec 2011 #25
mine entertained each other and they are still close as teens... Phentex Dec 2011 #26
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