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Phentex

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26. mine entertained each other and they are still close as teens...

Reply to yurbud (Original post)

Fri Dec 23, 2011, 07:13 AM

Dec 2011

but maybe it's age difference and personality. They are 19 months apart and have very different personalities so they don't compete with each other. Made great playmates as toddlers/boys and now they hang out in the boy cave together with no problem. I suspect they'll be really close as adults but I have no way to know for sure.

Being so close in age, I was able to get them on the same nap schedule and the younger one tried to keep up with his brother so things like potty training and learning to ride a bike came easy.

My sister and I are a year apart and very close. I have older sisters (6 and 10 years older) and I hardly know them.

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two kids vs. one: more work for parents or do they entertain each other? [View all] yurbud Dec 2011 OP

When you and your wife are gone they will still have each other. PassingFair Dec 2011 #1

"You are a huge b***h with a sickening voice, don't ever touch my DOG!" ScreamingMeemie Dec 2011 #12

Oh alright, I didn't say they laughed ALL the time! PassingFair Dec 2011 #21

Yes but . . . . elleng Dec 2011 #22

hard. really really, much harder for the first 4, 5 yrs. especially the first couple years. seabeyond Dec 2011 #2

How old is your first? Brickbat Dec 2011 #3

current kid: 1.6 yrs yurbud Dec 2011 #8

It is more work, we have three kids Burma Jones Dec 2011 #4

There are pros and cons HeiressofBickworth Dec 2011 #5

Not a parent myself, but a great quote from a friend about the subject of work to # of kids: beac Dec 2011 #6

It is more work, but it's worth it. surrealAmerican Dec 2011 #7

It's a lot more work and they may not end up playing with each other riderinthestorm Dec 2011 #9

If my brother and I were playing together MountainLaurel Dec 2011 #11

My husband and I privately called our youngest "coyote chow" for the longest time. riderinthestorm Dec 2011 #18

I got this ... the calculation changs over time ... JoePhilly Dec 2011 #10

More work. HappyMe Dec 2011 #13

more work shanti Dec 2011 #14

Well, with one, you always know who did it. Curmudgeoness Dec 2011 #15

I like having two. And for them, the pressure's not so intense. nolabear Dec 2011 #16

Do it. Have another child. bigwillq Dec 2011 #17

My parents had five kids... one_voice Dec 2011 #19

MUCH more work. Having one child prepares you almost not at all for having two Orrex Dec 2011 #20

Look at it this way, if one takes all your time, two can't take much more. shraby Dec 2011 #23

Have another one XemaSab Dec 2011 #24

Mine are 8 years apart. The funny thing is, the older one always comes down to the younger's level ScreamingMeemie Dec 2011 #25

mine entertained each other and they are still close as teens... Phentex Dec 2011 #26