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mopinko

(73,247 posts)
Mon Oct 24, 2022, 10:49 AM Oct 2022

dear bar and restaurant owners- [View all]

stop trying to sell the flesh of your female employees.
was in a bar over the weekend. 3 ppl behind the bar, 2 pretty, scantily clad, young ladies and a very young male barback. 10 people on stools.
the ladies were huddled together like 2 puppies in a rain storm. i had to get loud to order.
the wrong kind of person coulda taken it wrong, and someone could get hurt. but bottom line i got shitty service. and as an older, single woman, alone, i am ALWAYS invisible in these sitches. at my age, i know longer fear this shit. you should be more worried about me decking a creep and getting blood on your floor, but still. we should be doubly visible.
how fast do these ladies turn over? i'm guessin mostly quickly.
if you are gonna let/ask your female employees to show some flesh, you best have a plan to deal w sexual harassment from customers. put them in your tshirt and jeans.
be at least that professional.
the part where the food runner put my fried pickles in between me and the drunk in the next stool who had been trying to pick me up for half an hour by then didnt help.

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