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31. Sure I can. So you don't like her music, that's not a big deal to me.

Sun Jun 4, 2023, 03:12 PM

Jun 2023

I'm not talking about people who don't like her music, I never was.

I'm talking about people who comment about her looks, fashions, age, personal life, ad nausem.

Not liking her music is a whole other thing.

A long time DUer, flvegan, doesn't like her music, but gives her props for being pro-LGBT+ before it was socially acceptable, and her many charitable causes, and for promoting the Beastie Boys (who he loves).

I'm perfectly fine with not liking her music, as long as they are fair about it, and not saying that as a cover for their secret bigotry. A lot of times, if you scratch the surface, that's what it's really about. Just try reading the comments sections of any news articles about her and you'll see what I mean.

After all, it's hard enough to get tickets to her show. I don't need more competition!

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Why do people like to post about something/someone popular they consider overrated? [View all] highplainsdem Jun 2023 OP

Oh, I see lots of upbeat threads where someone brings it down for some reason. LakeArenal Jun 2023 #1

It tends to be a different sort of back and forth when disagreeing over highplainsdem Jun 2023 #6

I don't see it. It's a discussion forum, not a I agree with you 100%.Discussion is a give and take. debm55 Jun 2023 #33

Deb, no one complained to me about this thread. I'm talking about highplainsdem Jun 2023 #34

You did post about getting email from posters. I guess I read it wrong. You might have been talking debm55 Jun 2023 #36

I was talking about forums in general often having more highplainsdem Jun 2023 #38

Yes, i understand the bitterness, I was made an ass out of, not a movie, or song or actor but me debm55 Jun 2023 #40

I'm sorry you ran into those personal attacks. Those are always wrong. highplainsdem Jun 2023 #41

Thank you highplainsdem. I love your musical knowledge and the person you are. debm55 Jun 2023 #42

There are people here with a lot more musical knowledge than I have, Deb, but highplainsdem Jun 2023 #43

I can tell you why people do it, but it won't address your issue with it. Coventina Jun 2023 #2

But it bothers you if anyone says anything negative about Madonna, highplainsdem Jun 2023 #8

I posted a thread about fishing--I was called a murderer and that I liked to torture animals. My debm55 Jun 2023 #11

My issues with Madonna critics are usually because Coventina Jun 2023 #13

You seem to be assuming people who don't like Madonna highplainsdem Jun 2023 #24

Please show me the host of critics of Madonna that are not based in Coventina Jun 2023 #25

Thanks for proving my point. highplainsdem Jun 2023 #26

In other words, you can't. Coventina Jun 2023 #28

LOL! I know a lot of people who aren't Madonna fans who aren't highplainsdem Jun 2023 #29

Sure I can. So you don't like her music, that's not a big deal to me. Coventina Jun 2023 #31

I'd agree with flvegan in giving her props for all the things you mentioned. highplainsdem Jun 2023 #37

hey, I am one Skittles Jun 2023 #51

I have pretty refined tastes (as in classical music, even opera) but I am glad to share usonian Jun 2023 #3

It doesn't matter what the topic of an OP is. Niagara Jun 2023 #4

Because online discussion forums are designed specifically for people to engage in discussions? Irish_Dem Jun 2023 #5

There's a difference between discussions and arguments. Between saying highplainsdem Jun 2023 #10

Can you point out were an argument took place in an Overrated thread. . debm55 Jun 2023 #12

I was blasted by a few posters for asking what is your favorite--------.Breech of security. A whole debm55 Jun 2023 #14

Some research suggests that online anonymity leads to more aggressive discussions. Irish_Dem Jun 2023 #16

Everyone can be criticized for something bucolic_frolic Jun 2023 #7

I'm guilty, but I like having a good back and forth discussion. It seems that there are more debm55 Jun 2023 #9

Someone was snooty to you for asking where you could highplainsdem Jun 2023 #19

But I was told not to post those and posters posting to them were risking their security? In fact a debm55 Jun 2023 #20

It's irritating for things you consider inferior wryter2000 Jun 2023 #15

But that's kind of egotistical. Elessar Zappa Jun 2023 #17

Some things are better than others wryter2000 Jun 2023 #21

I do enjoy favorite music posts. quaint Jun 2023 #18

I only find them irritating wryter2000 Jun 2023 #23

Agree. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #30

Post 27 is for you. debm55 Jun 2023 #46

Thanks for including my favorite music wryter2000 Jun 2023 #49

Well, When I posted a poll on favorite type of music, in which I covered all major genres including debm55 Jun 2023 #27

Whoa, are you talking to me? quaint Jun 2023 #44

Sorry, no I meant to post to the two under you. debm55 Jun 2023 #45

highplainsdem..... ... Upthevibe Jun 2023 #22

This message was self-deleted by its author debm55 Jun 2023 #32

Eloquently stated, Upthevibe. Niagara Jun 2023 #35

Niagara......... Upthevibe Jun 2023 #39

thank you, debm55 Jun 2023 #48

Thank you. debm55 Jun 2023 #47

because they don't undertstand the subject's popularity? Skittles Jun 2023 #50

People have different tastes. Period. Threads calling something or highplainsdem Jun 2023 #52

what's wrong with questioning other people's tastes? Skittles Jun 2023 #53

You really think all the DUers who like the Grateful Dead are stupid, highplainsdem Jun 2023 #54

LOLOL Skittles Jun 2023 #55

This message was self-deleted by its author highplainsdem Jun 2023 #56

Sigh. You called the band "lame" repeatedly in a few posts there, and that highplainsdem Jun 2023 #57

I think we have all made our points--both sides. Lets put it tp rest. I don't think people are going debm55 Jun 2023 #58