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52. When our mom died, and none of the children could afford to keep the house, we had to sell it.

Thu Oct 19, 2023, 05:24 PM

Oct 2023

The inheritance taxes, property taxes, and necessary repairs for a 50 year old house were just too much for me to manage, and my wife was dead set against trying to manage two houses, even if I could figure out the financing. It sold for about $1 million, as I recall. That is far less than it would be worth today, but that was over 20 years ago, and I'm sure that whoever bought it had to put some serious money into modernizing it. I have no knowledge whatsoever of the New York or Long Island situation, then or now, apparently far less than your insight into the northern Virginia situation of the time, so I have no basis for comparison.

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Just found an image from 30 years ago that we had forgotten. What a different world [View all] DFW Oct 2023 OP

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We have a friend back in Dallas who knows her well DFW Oct 2023 #13

One can tell by the picture she lights up the room... Bluethroughu Oct 2023 #22

Very perceptive observation DFW Oct 2023 #37

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Our daughters definitely got the right proportion of her DNA DFW Oct 2023 #10

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She is why I never play the lottery DFW Oct 2023 #14

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This is not horseshoes DFW Oct 2023 #39

Man, did you luck out or what! FuzzyRabbit Oct 2023 #16

You got it right the first time DFW Oct 2023 #42

Great Story! kooth Oct 2023 #17

Thanks!! DFW Oct 2023 #43

Beautiful orangecrush Oct 2023 #18

You're as big a blessing for her as she is for you. She probably cherishes even your "sour" moments NBachers Oct 2023 #19

Well, for starters, there's this. DFW Oct 2023 #26

What a tasteful person you are. Pehaps she is too. planetc Oct 2023 #20

Except for her questionable taste in men DFW Oct 2023 #44

She's beautiful. Joni Mitchell lookalike! N/t CousinIT Oct 2023 #21

I never saw Joni Mitchell in person DFW Oct 2023 #46

Great post. You two are very blessed to have each other. debm55 Oct 2023 #23

Thanks! I think I got the upper hand in the blessings department DFW Oct 2023 #36

Unless I miss my guess, Prairie_Seagull Oct 2023 #24

You missed your guess! DFW Oct 2023 #35

You are a rich man. May or may not be wealthy but definitely rich. Deuxcents Oct 2023 #25

We met when we were 22. DFW Oct 2023 #47

You are both lucky!! 617Blue Oct 2023 #27

$50,000 in 1954 in rural VA? marybourg Oct 2023 #28

That's what they said it cost for the land and the house DFW Oct 2023 #30

Well, I guess if it were an architect-designed house marybourg Oct 2023 #31

It was an architect-designed house DFW Oct 2023 #33

DFW is not wrong. I grew up in that same neighborhood. onenote Oct 2023 #34

OK. Who would have thought close in NYC was 1/3 the cost of rural VA. marybourg Oct 2023 #38

Waterfront homes in the neighborhood go from $1.5 - $2.5 million. onenote Oct 2023 #41

Interesting. My parents' house ( that they paid $15,000 for in '54) marybourg Oct 2023 #45

Northern Virginia is so built up now, the commute is worse than in 1960 DFW Oct 2023 #49

When our mom died, and none of the children could afford to keep the house, we had to sell it. DFW Oct 2023 #52

Clearly a very special and very expensive marybourg Oct 2023 #53

It was special for its design. DFW Oct 2023 #54

I'm a Virginian. I'm curious to know where the photo was taken? Martin68 Oct 2023 #29

Down at the lake at my parents' house DFW Oct 2023 #32

A bunch of senior government folks lived there over the years onenote Oct 2023 #40

We didn't know Clark or Finch DFW Oct 2023 #48

Ramsey Clark's son was a high school classmate of mine. onenote Oct 2023 #50

Wow, VERY small world! DFW Oct 2023 #51