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11. Baffled what the objection is
Sun Mar 17, 2024, 01:22 PM
Mar 2024

"Gift" is unambiguously charity.

"Give" is not. It *can* refer to a gift, but it could imply an expectation (at least) of something in return.

For instance, here, let me give you my lawn mower, I'm moving into an apartment and won't need it any more. But if you're not using your bread maker anymore, I'd love to have fresh bread now and again.

Sure, context usually makes it clear, but why not have an unambiguous word for it?

Especially given the modern use of "regifting". Should we say regiving instead?

"Gifting" carries an implication that it's associated with an event such as a birthday, or a holiday. "Giving" does not.


Would you use "gift" as a verb? [View all] CTyankee Mar 2024 OP
As in 'gifting' or 'gifted' calguy Mar 2024 #1
No. It's really irritating when used that way. Ocelot II Mar 2024 #2
Appears to be acceptable grammar Septua Mar 2024 #3
Yes, Gift is a Verb cbabe Mar 2024 #4
Yes, it is a bit affected. In terms of art donations, I think it elevates the donation a bit and sounds appropriately CTyankee Mar 2024 #7
That's what I love about English -- we can use nouns as verbs if we want to. fierywoman Mar 2024 #5
Very much dislike. NoRethugFriends Mar 2024 #6
what word would you use instead of grow in that context? CTyankee Mar 2024 #8
Never heard that one!! ailsagirl Mar 2024 #20
very big in the business world, which thankfully I'm retired from. NoRethugFriends Mar 2024 #23
Great news!! 👍👍 ailsagirl Apr 15 #44
I don't but others do. I could care less. Wonder Why Mar 2024 #9
While we're at it, "could care less" suggests that you do care, Ocelot II Mar 2024 #26
You are correct! I couldn't care less. But I cared fore your reminder. Thanks. Wonder Why Mar 2024 #39
I have had to get used to a lot of jarring "acceptable changes" to grammar, spelling, pronunciation hlthe2b Mar 2024 #10
"Nucular" is older than GWB Gruenemann Apr 15 #55
I am well aware.. But Merriam Webster only bowed to public pressure after GWB* was mocked widely... hlthe2b Apr 15 #57
Baffled what the objection is unblock Mar 2024 #11
Not sure about that. Lots of charities use the word "give" and "giving" in their messaging, as in "charitable giving." CTyankee Mar 2024 #12
I'm not arguing against using "give". Just saying nothing's wrong with "gift" as a verb. unblock Mar 2024 #13
Good distinction. Hold that line. SarahD Mar 2024 #19
I'll leave you know. SarahD Mar 2024 #14
"He's a gifted person" shouldn't mean that he got new socks for his birthday. LastDemocratInSC Mar 2024 #15
The loss of gave and given Easterncedar Mar 2024 #16
Can we diaiogue about this? SarahD Mar 2024 #18
It's overused, IMO. I want to get away from something being "impactful, " too. What would you suggest? CTyankee Mar 2024 #31
They call me Little Miss Pedantic Language Person. SarahD Mar 2024 #17
I think saying "she is a gifted artist" is fine. Calling someone "gifted" is a nice compliment, IMO, if sincerely meant CTyankee Mar 2024 #21
No, I would not. sinkingfeeling Mar 2024 #22
i'm not comfortable using "gift" as a verb soldierant Mar 2024 #24
Don't Think I Have ProfessorGAC Mar 2024 #25
No but I'm slow, I missed the memo about it being ok to use "invite" as a noun. Croney Mar 2024 #27
Why not? Language is used by speakers and writers cachukis Mar 2024 #28
If I gift you by saying yes would you understand? randr Mar 2024 #29
Non! Mme. Defarge Mar 2024 #30
During the Valentine fund raiser on DU... PJMcK Mar 2024 #32
Nope. (nt) Paladin Mar 2024 #33
No, but it is a legitimate usage. malthaussen Mar 2024 #34
Donating art to museums involves lawyers, contracts, stipulations, rights, etc., it's not really freely 'gifted' Donkees Mar 2024 #35
Lend is all but extinct as a verb swimboy Mar 2024 #36
Never ever gave it as any thoughts till now. Now Emile Mar 2024 #37
I'm sorry... CTyankee Mar 2024 #38
Absolutely not. Not Heidi Mar 2024 #40
No, not "gift" by itself sakabatou Mar 2024 #41
It may be correct, but I'm not a fan of it being used that way. LudwigPastorius Mar 2024 #42
Oddly, I think "gift" is a noun, but "regift" is a verb. JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2024 #43
Gift has a clear meaning than give, IMO. ntp AnnaLee Apr 15 #45
Never. Paladin Apr 15 #46
I would say it depends on the context, to be honest. OldBaldy1701E Apr 15 #47
I've never gotten used to Mr.Bill Apr 15 #48
CTyankee ... Upthevibe Apr 15 #49
If you use it to describe an action, yes. Emile Apr 15 #50
Are you a gifted child? Bernardo de La Paz Apr 15 #51
I would not use "gift" as a verb when speaking to wnylib Apr 15 #52
Would you object to the usage as in: "He was a gifted musician"? CTyankee Apr 15 #56
This door is alarmed Dear_Prudence Apr 15 #58
Or, attach a note to the alarmed door sign requesting wnylib Apr 15 #63
Per my post, it depends on whether I was speaking to wnylib Apr 15 #62
Yikes! Dear_Prudence Apr 15 #64
I would not Jilly_in_VA Apr 15 #53
I wouldn't; I find it jarring. But I also wouldn't use "fellowship" as a verb, rsdsharp Apr 15 #54
To be or not to be... Harker Apr 15 #59
Per Merriam Webster ailsagirl Apr 15 #60
Depends on the context. Dulcinea Apr 15 #61
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