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In reply to the discussion: Well I just got dumped. [View all]cherish44
(2,566 posts)I have to color my gray hair, I am perimenopausal (hot flashes SUCK so bad lol) I have arthritic knees...Oh did I mention that I broke up with HIM? No, there was no one else. The relationship was just stagnant and going nowhere and I decided life was too darn short to be stuck in a rut. And I'm not worried at all about having to starting over as a middle aged woman, in fact I'm have the time of my life and enjoying the single life so much! It's "me" time that I haven't had in years - I'm doing stuff like taking classes, working out, traveling, dancing, going to concerts, meeting people, painting.... And YES I get asked out on dates all the time (not one has been a fat redneck). I'm in no hurry to "get a man". In fact I find life is much less complicated without one right now. When the time comes and the right person comes along, maybe, but right now I'm working on myself and have grown so much! Love your life and be happy and people will be attracted to you. Positive energy attracts positive energy!