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105. two songs saving me today

Sun Nov 9, 2025, 11:08 AM

Nov 2025

Turn around look at me by the vogues (Her favorite oldie and

goes to show you never can tell by Springsteen

Thank you so much for all the kind words my DU friends

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my wife passed away yesterday morning [View all] onethatcares Nov 2025 OP

I am so sorry to hear this. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #1

So sorry for your loss. piddyprints Nov 2025 #2

Ohhhhhh. I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 Nov 2025 #3

I'm very sorry for your loss. ❤️ underpants Nov 2025 #4

I'm so sorry. Chellee Nov 2025 #5

I am so sorry for your loss ms liberty Nov 2025 #6

Condolences. I wish I had the words to express my sympathy. NNadir Nov 2025 #7

My heart is with you. Hope22 Nov 2025 #8

53 years of marriage onethatcares Nov 2025 #9

Tears here for that moment, for your loss. Please remember to be kind niyad Nov 2025 #24

my heart goes out to you markie Nov 2025 #26

There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss. COL Mustard Nov 2025 #33

My condolences 49jim Nov 2025 #122

Peace PJMcK Nov 2025 #10

So sorry for your loss. KS Toronado Nov 2025 #11

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Diamond_Dog Nov 2025 #12

I am very sorry for the loss of your beloved wife. 💔 GentryDixon Nov 2025 #13

I am so sorry. My deepest condolences to you, and I will keep you in my thoughts. HeartsCanHope Nov 2025 #14

My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Nov 2025 #15

I am so sorry lindalou65 Nov 2025 #16

So Sorry for your loss-Best wishes to you and your family marked50 Nov 2025 #17

She will be with you. cachukis Nov 2025 #18

I am so sorry for your loss. She is at peace now. Fla Dem Nov 2025 #19

So sorry to hear of your loss. 14 years is a near miracle, same happened with my dad's prostate cancer. lark Nov 2025 #20

I am so very sorry for the loss of your wife. Know that your DU family niyad Nov 2025 #21

I am so, so sorry... Trueblue Texan Nov 2025 #22

I am so sorry for your loss. 💗 58Sunliner Nov 2025 #23

Thats kozar Nov 2025 #25

So very sorry for your loss Nululu Nov 2025 #27

I wish you well. Botany Nov 2025 #28

I am so sorry. Dr. Shepper Nov 2025 #29

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Nov 2025 #30

Oh goodness I'm so sorry. AllyCat Nov 2025 #31

My consolences. Grumpy Old Guy Nov 2025 #32

I am so very sorry Onethatcares, JMCKUSICK Nov 2025 #34

I'm so sorry for your loss. Lonestarblue Nov 2025 #35

My heart is with you Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #36

I am so sorry to hear about your son. Know that your DU family is niyad Nov 2025 #65

Thank you Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #121

Strength to you as well. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #209

I wish I could do more than say things. OldBaldy1701E Nov 2025 #37

So very sorry.. PittBlue Nov 2025 #38

Your pain comes through your words and I could not hope more for all of us to absorb some of it.... hlthe2b Nov 2025 #39

Oh, dear onethatcares, please know, as you inch your way through this, your DU family cares mightily for you. Sending KitFox Nov 2025 #40

Of course you have my utmost condolences richdj25 Nov 2025 #41

I am so sorry UpInArms Nov 2025 #42

So sorry for your loss edhopper Nov 2025 #43

So sorry for your loss. niyad Nov 2025 #67

Very sorry, Ed. My sincerest condolences. Tetrachloride Nov 2025 #87

Thanks edhopper Nov 2025 #94

I am sorry, ed. murielm99 Nov 2025 #115

Thanks edhopper Nov 2025 #158

The scourge that is still too much with us! Condolences. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #210

Take care of yourself. We are all cheering for you. Stay strong. twodogsbarking Nov 2025 #44

My condolences snowybirdie Nov 2025 #45

Condolences LovelyStuff Nov 2025 #46

I'm sorry for your loss. nt Gore1FL Nov 2025 #47

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Nov 2025 #48

I am so sorry, onethatcares. badhair77 Nov 2025 #49

Oh, SO sorry! 70sEraVet Nov 2025 #50

I'm sorry dem4decades Nov 2025 #51

🫂❤️😢🕯️ QueerDuck Nov 2025 #52

I am sorry for your loss. masmdu Nov 2025 #53

I know your heart is hurting. tavernier Nov 2025 #54

I'm so sorry! redwitch Nov 2025 #55

We care about you, True Dough Nov 2025 #56

Sending comfort to you, onethatcares 💖 Clouds Passing Nov 2025 #57

My sincerest condolences. Tetrachloride Nov 2025 #58

My deepest condolences to you and yours Hey Joe Nov 2025 #59

You have my sympathy. bluescribbler Nov 2025 #60

I am so sorry. I can't even imagine 14 years. Please take care of yourself and come here and talk to us. ratchiweenie Nov 2025 #61

I'm so sorry. highplainsdem Nov 2025 #62

Know that those who have walked this trail are with you and here for you Attilatheblond Nov 2025 #63

I'm sorry you are going through this heartache. Emile Nov 2025 #64

I'm so sorry for your loss. Mr. Mustard 2023 Nov 2025 #66

I am so very sorry TNNurse Nov 2025 #68

So sorry. appleannie1 Nov 2025 #69

I'm so sorry JustAnotherGen Nov 2025 #70

So sorry...you both gave it a good fight... Karadeniz Nov 2025 #71

We are with you OddMom20 Nov 2025 #72

So sorry for your loss essaynnc Nov 2025 #73

🫂 mwmisses4289 Nov 2025 #74

My sincere condolences Sanity Claws Nov 2025 #75

I am sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2025 #76

So sorry DownriverDem Nov 2025 #77

I'm very sorry for your loss. Texin Nov 2025 #78

Sorry Onethatcares. You need some hugs. Doodley Nov 2025 #79

My brother on Feb 15 SuzyandPuffpuff Nov 2025 #80

Hugs to your brother and you electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #211

Don't try and do this alone justaprogressive Nov 2025 #81

So sorry SocialDemocrat61 Nov 2025 #82

I am so very sorry, onethatcares Grim Chieftain Nov 2025 #83

I am so sorry, one that cares. May the memories of your dear wife be a blessing to you. debm55 Nov 2025 #84

Holding you in my heart... thank you for letting us know. n/t TygrBright Nov 2025 #85

Of course you hurt, my dear onethatcares . . . CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2025 #86

... Aristus Nov 2025 #88

Heartbreaking IndyPepper Nov 2025 #89

So sorry paxmoki Nov 2025 #90

So sorry to here this Mz Pip Nov 2025 #91

aw heck AllaN01Bear Nov 2025 #92

I join with others and send my sympathy. nt in2herbs Nov 2025 #93

I know this feeling 🌠 Richluu Nov 2025 #95

We're surrounding you with love. democrank Nov 2025 #96

Aww! Chi67 Nov 2025 #97

So sorry for your loss Tree Lady Nov 2025 #98

I bet you hurt. That was a good long fight. 1WorldHope Nov 2025 #99

So sorry, onethatcares. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2025 #100

I'm so sorry for your loss! yardwork Nov 2025 #101

Maybe additional cancer research could avoid such horrors. But of course tax cuts are more important. flashman13 Nov 2025 #102

I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Nov 2025 #103

Our hearts are with you along with our condolences lostnfound Nov 2025 #104

two songs saving me today onethatcares Nov 2025 #105

Words never suffice in a time like this jmbar2 Nov 2025 #106

You must, I think, feel eversomuch alone SorellaLaBefana Nov 2025 #107

My condolences to you and your family, onethatcares Niagara Nov 2025 #108

I am so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Nov 2025 #109

I am terribly sorry for your loss. AltairIV Nov 2025 #110

My condolences to you and your family kimbutgar Nov 2025 #111

I am so sorry to read this. hamsterjill Nov 2025 #112

How fortunate your wife had you stollen Nov 2025 #113

I am so sorry. murielm99 Nov 2025 #114

I'm so sorry for your loss awesomerwb1 Nov 2025 #116

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 MayReasonRule Nov 2025 #117

I am so sorry for your loss. WestMichRad Nov 2025 #118

my heart goes out to you orleans Nov 2025 #119

So very sorry for your loss. byronius Nov 2025 #120

I'm very sorry JoseBalow Nov 2025 #123

I am so sorry! barbtries Nov 2025 #124

My Heart popsdenver Nov 2025 #125

Dear onethatcares...we care Wicked Blue Nov 2025 #126

I'm so very sorry for your lose angrychair Nov 2025 #127

Hugs Duncanpup Nov 2025 #128

How awful! pandr32 Nov 2025 #129

We are all thinking of you people Nov 2025 #130

I am so sorry. May you know peace. LoisB Nov 2025 #131

Deepest condolences to you SheltieLover Nov 2025 #132

I'm so sorry. maveric Nov 2025 #133

A Hug to you. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #212

Thank you maveric Nov 2025 #219

YW. I hope you have support. It's relatively new on a long journey to a different life. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #222

My condolences for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2025 #134

Heartfelt condolences on the loss of your wife. 14 years is a long time, may she rest in peace and may you find Ninga Nov 2025 #135

So sorry for your loss IbogaProject Nov 2025 #136

So sorry for your loss Picaro Nov 2025 #137

I'm so sorry. Alliepoo Nov 2025 #138

I'm really sorry, FoxNewsSucks Nov 2025 #139

Love Never Ends Dorothy V Nov 2025 #140

On no, I am so sorry KT2000 Nov 2025 #141

Im sorry quakerboy Nov 2025 #142

The saddest part is sellitman Nov 2025 #143

Very sorry. S/V Loner Nov 2025 #144

Sincere Condolences gademocrat7 Nov 2025 #145

I am sorry to here this. ironman99 Nov 2025 #146

So Sorry For Your Loss! Deep State Witch Nov 2025 #147

Very sorry for your loss jackcrow2001 Nov 2025 #148

Because of cultural conditioning I'm glad you found a group to process, unburden yourself, and heal electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #214

We embrace you, onethatcares, cilla4progress Nov 2025 #149

Prayers for both of you. creeksneakers2 Nov 2025 #150

Oh, I'm So Very Sorry DarthDem Nov 2025 #151

Very sorry oldtime dfl_er Nov 2025 #152

My deepest sympathies. Mad_Dem_X Nov 2025 #153

So sorry. BootinUp Nov 2025 #154

I am so sorry for your loss debsy Nov 2025 #155

Onethatcares, I'm so sorry that you lost your dear wife FakeNoose Nov 2025 #156

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure each of us feel a little pain on your behalf in the hope that it might alleviate some Buddyzbuddy Nov 2025 #157

Strong hugs around the onethatcares family and friends... Tikki Nov 2025 #159

I'm so sorry! cate94 Nov 2025 #160

I'm so so sorry. I understand the hurt. I'm still grieving the loss of my wonderful husband 🙏 TommieMommy Nov 2025 #161

A Hug to you electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #215

Condolences vishnura Nov 2025 #162

May her memory be a blessing BaronChocula Nov 2025 #163

I am so sorry! I pray memories of the wonderful times you shared vanessa_ca Nov 2025 #164

May she rest in peace. Queso Delicioso Nov 2025 #165

Oh Onethatcares choie Nov 2025 #166

(((Onethatcares))) mahina Nov 2025 #167

I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔 live love laugh Nov 2025 #168

I am so, so sorry. EuterpeThelo Nov 2025 #169

Sending love and good vibes... thomhartmann Nov 2025 #170

Oh how awful for you. Stay close - we care. Marie Marie Nov 2025 #171

I am so sorry ... rustysgurl Nov 2025 #172

Condolences. She must have put up a heck of a fight. 14 years. So sad for you. Vinca Nov 2025 #173

I'm so sorry onethatcares. skylucy Nov 2025 #174

(((HUGS))) BumRushDaShow Nov 2025 #175

I'm really sorry for you and your loss. Sometimes I think that us men really should "go" first because we don't..... FadedMullet Nov 2025 #176

Condolences to you. spooky3 Nov 2025 #177

So sorry for your loss - nt. TBF Nov 2025 #178

Love, just love Roy Rolling Nov 2025 #179

May you, your family and friends mercuryblues Nov 2025 #180

I'm So Sorry, onethatcares 💙 Cha Nov 2025 #181

Deepest Condolences ProfessorGAC Nov 2025 #182

I am so very sorry. FM123 Nov 2025 #183

so very sorry Skittles Nov 2025 #184

As a recent widower my heart goes out to you. TexLaProgressive Nov 2025 #185

So sorry to hear 4Sitka Nov 2025 #186

So sorry for the passing 0f your wife. riverbendviewgal Nov 2025 #187

That's way too close shocks. A hug to you. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #217

My deepest sympathy. Joinfortmill Nov 2025 #188

Sending my deepest condolences Tumbulu Nov 2025 #189

Caring Ksout Nov 2025 #190

I'm so sorry onethatcares .... cliffside Nov 2025 #191

I hope she visits you BigmanPigman Nov 2025 #192

((Hugs)) AKwannabe Nov 2025 #193

So very sorry. That's a long time Phentex Nov 2025 #194

((one)) blm Nov 2025 #195

I am so sorry. Morbius Nov 2025 #196

I'm so sorry. blogslug Nov 2025 #197

Just feel our love wrapping around you some_of_us_are_sane Nov 2025 #198

I am so sorry for your loss. Jay25 Nov 2025 #199

I feel so very sorry for you. I'm married, too, to a wonderful woman. 14 years is a hell of a battle. She was very Exp Nov 2025 #200

Dear onethatcares, I understand. My dear husband of 38 years passed 26 days ago. I'm finding comfort in talking MLAA Nov 2025 #201

Not long ago at all! A hug to you. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #216

Thank you for your kindness. 🩷 MLAA Nov 2025 #233

I'm so sorry, MLAA Niagara Nov 2025 #240

Thank you for your kindness. 💕 MLAA Nov 2025 #245

I am so sorry for your loss, MLAA debm55 Nov 2025 #243

Thank you for the hugs, Deb. I need them. MLAA Nov 2025 #244

I am so sorry for your loss. BlueKota Nov 2025 #202

I am so sorry. Thinking of you. bronxiteforever Nov 2025 #203

So sorry for your loss onethatcares. Vibes to you and yours. applegrove Nov 2025 #204

It's good that she had you.. Permanut Nov 2025 #205

My deepest condolences. ❤️ herding cats Nov 2025 #206

Time well spent. May you spend your new life well. Festivito Nov 2025 #207

My heart breaks for you Mz.LadyRe22 Nov 2025 #208

I hurt for you. babylonsister Nov 2025 #213

I'm so sorry for your loss. Beacool Nov 2025 #218

I'm sorry. 😢 Bluepinky Nov 2025 #220

Dang! So sorry. Just seeing this. Strength to you as you navigate both the practical things, and the roils of emotions.. electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #221

I'm very sorry for your tough, painful loss. JohnnyLib2 Nov 2025 #223

The only consolation I can offer is 'she only left you against her will' Jack Valentino Nov 2025 #224

May you fondly remember to good moments spent with her Xipe Totec Nov 2025 #225

My most sincere condolences to you and your family. Basso8vb Nov 2025 #226

I'm so sorry for your loss, OTC. summer_in_TX Nov 2025 #227

I cannot find the words...I grieve by your side irisblue Nov 2025 #228

that pain will always have place in your heart Shellback Squid Nov 2025 #229

My heartfelt condolences Dystopian Nov 2025 #230

Today we are manythatcare. Prairie_Seagull Nov 2025 #231

Peace Magoo48 Nov 2025 #232

I whish I had words of wisdom for you. I am not so foolish as to think I do. DFW Nov 2025 #234

it's been "remission after remission" onethatcares Nov 2025 #236

A cruel cycle of, "I think we've beaten it--oh, sorry, no we didn't." And you put up with that for fourteen years? DFW Nov 2025 #237

cholangial carcenoma was her first onethatcares Nov 2025 #238

onethatcares.... Niagara Nov 2025 #239

Thinking of you this morning OTC. Nittersing Nov 2025 #235

I'm so sorry. lapucelle Nov 2025 #241

You have the right to hurt malaise Nov 2025 #242