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LuckyCharms

(21,561 posts)
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 09:01 PM 18 hrs ago

When I first moved into my home... [View all]

There was a woman and her husband who lived a few doors down. They would walk up and down the street every day, holding hands. They would wave as they walked by. She was a little thing, thin and under five feet tall. Her husband was Italian, with a huge smile and a robust laugh.

I became close to both of them, but to her especially.

After her husband passed away, she would be out there in the harsh weather, shoveling the snow off her long driveway. I would do my best to hightail it over there after a snowfall, and shovel her driveway before she had a chance to get out there. She was fiercely independent, and she would curse at me out of her window when I was shoveling. And she used the colorful curse words that I won't type here. GO HOME!! I WANT TO DO IT MYSELF!! I would ignore her and keep on shoveling.

In June of 1985, I drove home from a concert that I attended in Pennsylvania. It was very hot. As I turned down my street and drove toward my home, she was running down the street, crying, carrying her limp little dog in her arms. "I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH HIM"!

I reached over and threw open the passenger door and told her to get in. There was a vet office a mile up the road. We sped to the office, and the dog was treated. Turns out it was just a problem with the heat.

Over the years, we would meet in the street in front of my house and chat. She called me by my nickname. She told me she loved me every time we parted, and I would tell her I loved her.

She would stand in the row of trees across the street, and she would talk to the birds there. I was watching her one time. She was looking up into a tree, and she was talking. She held out her hand, and a bird flew to her and landed on her hand. It was a small bird, maybe like a sparrow. I could see her talking to the bird as it sat on her outstretched hand.

We had two Shelties who were wary of other people. But when she walked by, they would start crying with glee. Whining loudly. She would walk up to the fence, and the dogs could not contain their excitement to see her. They would uncharacteristically whine loudly as she approached the chain link fence, and both of them would simultaneously be jumping on the fence as she approached.

Her voice would get high and playful as she talked to my dogs, and she would weave her fingers through the fence to pet them.

I've never seen anyone with a way with animals like that. Her ways were almost spiritual. The animals knew.

She passed away in her home, at age 103.

I miss her.

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When I first moved into my home... [View all] LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago OP
What a wonderful friend you had! MacKasey 18 hrs ago #1
She was. She grew close to my mom as well. LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #2
You shared a lovely friendship, LC PJMcK 18 hrs ago #3
Happy New Year to you, PJ. LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #4
A beautiful story.👍 surfered 18 hrs ago #5
""" AllaN01Bear 18 hrs ago #6
Thank you for sharing this special person with us. 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #7
There was a dichotomy with this woman... LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #9
"Fuck off, I'm not going anywhere." Niagara 6 hrs ago #20
Please, just try not to LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #39
That was lovely. Joinfortmill 18 hrs ago #8
How fortunate you ALL are... BurnDoubt 18 hrs ago #10
She was driving into her 90's. LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #11
Thank you for reminding us that really wonderful people do exist LuckyCharms JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #12
What a lovely friendship. Thank you for the reminder that there are beautiful people out there. LoisB 17 hrs ago #13
Animals are from the spirit realm,,,, FarPoint 17 hrs ago #14
I believe this to be absolutely true. LuckyCharms 16 hrs ago #16
💧❤️ littlemissmartypants 16 hrs ago #15
Now we know where Saint Anthony went. usonian 16 hrs ago #17
Oh! What a beautiful story! I feel blessed that I read it. Thank you! fierywoman 16 hrs ago #18
What a wonderful friend to have ... MiHale 7 hrs ago #19
Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful story. Silver Gaia 6 hrs ago #21
I miss her onethatcares 6 hrs ago #22
Wow... PittBlue 6 hrs ago #23
What a wonderful story Picaro 6 hrs ago #24
What lovely memories to share with us about your friend. HeartsCanHope 6 hrs ago #25
Saints & angels walk among us. Not magic or even religious, just the nature of many people Attilatheblond 6 hrs ago #26
A very touching remembrance. Fla Dem 5 hrs ago #27
What a heartwarming story! She was as special person, obviously. CousinIT 5 hrs ago #28
First post this morning.. I'm touched by your kindness and your friend's fiesty love for life. Now, I need tissues Deuxcents 5 hrs ago #29
beautiful tribute Brainstormy 4 hrs ago #30
Thanks for sharing! Martin68 4 hrs ago #31
What a lovely tribute to your friend. MIButterfly 3 hrs ago #32
This is what love is all about. patphil 3 hrs ago #33
When you write your memoirs, Lucky... Harker 3 hrs ago #34
I will, Harker. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #40
I'll look forward to it, Lucky. Harker 1 hr ago #41
She's a favorite in this house, Harker. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #42
I met her and Lenny Kaye in the second hand bookshop where I worked. Harker 46 min ago #43
Was this in the state in which you currently reside? LuckyCharms 41 min ago #45
This was in Boulder. Harker 33 min ago #47
I see! Maybe some day Harker... LuckyCharms 29 min ago #48
That damned internet. I should read more books, too. Harker 11 min ago #50
Beautiful. Thanks. Harker 37 min ago #46
Thank you for sharing this sweet story. yellow dahlia 2 hrs ago #35
Thank you for sharing this story with us, yellow dahlia 2 hrs ago #36
You had a good friend . . . so did she. yonder 2 hrs ago #37
What lovely memories, LuckyCharms! FemDemERA 1 hr ago #38
I wrote this in tears, and I want to thank all of you who are responding... LuckyCharms 42 min ago #44
Thanks for such a sweet story! wolfie001 11 min ago #49
Thank you for the heartwarming story Lucky. Irish_Dem 3 min ago #51
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