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LuckyCharms

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Mon Dec 29, 2025, 10:01 PM Dec 2025

When I first moved into my home... [View all]

There was a woman and her husband who lived a few doors down. They would walk up and down the street every day, holding hands. They would wave as they walked by. She was a little thing, thin and under five feet tall. Her husband was Italian, with a huge smile and a robust laugh.

I became close to both of them, but to her especially.

After her husband passed away, she would be out there in the harsh weather, shoveling the snow off her long driveway. I would do my best to hightail it over there after a snowfall, and shovel her driveway before she had a chance to get out there. She was fiercely independent, and she would curse at me out of her window when I was shoveling. And she used the colorful curse words that I won't type here. GO HOME!! I WANT TO DO IT MYSELF!! I would ignore her and keep on shoveling.

In June of 1985, I drove home from a concert that I attended in Pennsylvania. It was very hot. As I turned down my street and drove toward my home, she was running down the street, crying, carrying her limp little dog in her arms. "I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH HIM"!

I reached over and threw open the passenger door and told her to get in. There was a vet office a mile up the road. We sped to the office, and the dog was treated. Turns out it was just a problem with the heat.

Over the years, we would meet in the street in front of my house and chat. She called me by my nickname. She told me she loved me every time we parted, and I would tell her I loved her.

She would stand in the row of trees across the street, and she would talk to the birds there. I was watching her one time. She was looking up into a tree, and she was talking. She held out her hand, and a bird flew to her and landed on her hand. It was a small bird, maybe like a sparrow. I could see her talking to the bird as it sat on her outstretched hand.

We had two Shelties who were wary of other people. But when she walked by, they would start crying with glee. Whining loudly. She would walk up to the fence, and the dogs could not contain their excitement to see her. They would uncharacteristically whine loudly as she approached the chain link fence, and both of them would simultaneously be jumping on the fence as she approached.

Her voice would get high and playful as she talked to my dogs, and she would weave her fingers through the fence to pet them.

I've never seen anyone with a way with animals like that. Her ways were almost spiritual. The animals knew.

She passed away in her home, at age 103.

I miss her.

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When I first moved into my home... [View all] LuckyCharms Dec 2025 OP
What a wonderful friend you had! MacKasey Dec 2025 #1
She was. She grew close to my mom as well. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #2
You shared a lovely friendship, LC PJMcK Dec 2025 #3
Happy New Year to you, PJ. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #4
A beautiful story.👍 surfered Dec 2025 #5
""" AllaN01Bear Dec 2025 #6
Thank you for sharing this special person with us. 3catwoman3 Dec 2025 #7
There was a dichotomy with this woman... LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #9
"Fuck off, I'm not going anywhere." Niagara Dec 2025 #20
Please, just try not to LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #39
Alright, alright Niagara Dec 2025 #60
Why don't I believe you, Niagara? LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #61
I might be a tad of a Troublemaker Niagara Dec 31 #67
That was lovely. Joinfortmill Dec 2025 #8
How fortunate you ALL are... BurnDoubt Dec 2025 #10
She was driving into her 90's. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #11
Thank you for reminding us that really wonderful people do exist LuckyCharms JMCKUSICK Dec 2025 #12
What a lovely friendship. Thank you for the reminder that there are beautiful people out there. LoisB Dec 2025 #13
Animals are from the spirit realm,,,, FarPoint Dec 2025 #14
I believe this to be absolutely true. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #16
💧❤️ littlemissmartypants Dec 2025 #15
Now we know where Saint Anthony went. usonian Dec 2025 #17
Oh! What a beautiful story! I feel blessed that I read it. Thank you! fierywoman Dec 2025 #18
What a wonderful friend to have ... MiHale Dec 2025 #19
Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful story. Silver Gaia Dec 2025 #21
I miss her onethatcares Dec 2025 #22
Wow... PittBlue Dec 2025 #23
What a wonderful story Picaro Dec 2025 #24
What lovely memories to share with us about your friend. HeartsCanHope Dec 2025 #25
Saints & angels walk among us. Not magic or even religious, just the nature of many people Attilatheblond Dec 2025 #26
A very touching remembrance. Fla Dem Dec 2025 #27
What a heartwarming story! She was as special person, obviously. CousinIT Dec 2025 #28
First post this morning.. I'm touched by your kindness and your friend's fiesty love for life. Now, I need tissues Deuxcents Dec 2025 #29
beautiful tribute Brainstormy Dec 2025 #30
Thanks for sharing! Martin68 Dec 2025 #31
What a lovely tribute to your friend. MIButterfly Dec 2025 #32
This is what love is all about. patphil Dec 2025 #33
When you write your memoirs, Lucky... Harker Dec 2025 #34
I will, Harker. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #40
I'll look forward to it, Lucky. Harker Dec 2025 #41
She's a favorite in this house, Harker. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #42
I met her and Lenny Kaye in the second hand bookshop where I worked. Harker Dec 2025 #43
Was this in the state in which you currently reside? LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #45
This was in Boulder. Harker Dec 2025 #47
I see! Maybe some day Harker... LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #48
That damned internet. I should read more books, too. Harker Dec 2025 #50
Beautiful. Thanks. Harker Dec 2025 #46
Thank you for sharing this sweet story. yellow dahlia Dec 2025 #35
Thank you for sharing this story with us, yellow dahlia Dec 2025 #36
You had a good friend . . . so did she. yonder Dec 2025 #37
What lovely memories, LuckyCharms! FemDemERA Dec 2025 #38
I wrote this in tears, and I want to thank all of you who are responding... LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #44
Thanks for such a sweet story! wolfie001 Dec 2025 #49
Thank you for the heartwarming story Lucky. Irish_Dem Dec 2025 #51
BEAUTIFUL Faux pas Dec 2025 #52
Lovely. Thank you for sharing this. people Dec 2025 #53
What a beautiful eulogy Wild blueberry Dec 2025 #54
What a beautiful memory of friendship! Hope22 Dec 2025 #55
I'm guessing 1912? Same year my dad was born. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #56
That is so amazing. Hope22 Dec 2025 #57
You bet, Hope22! LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #58
Oh, that we should all have such wonderful friends and neighbors Bayard Dec 2025 #59
The Hebrew word "hesed" is one of the most beautiful words of the Old Testament. It means loving-kindness... ancianita Dec 2025 #62
So nice, ancianita. Thank you. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #63
You are a wonderful writer, Lucky... Trueblue Texan Dec 2025 #64
Thanks so much, Trueblue Texan. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #65
Wonderful, wonderful story. mountain grammy Dec 2025 #66
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