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loli phabay

(5,580 posts) Thu Nov 15, 2012, 01:34 AM Nov 2012

with all teh patreus stuff got me wondering about affairs [View all]

cant do polls so just questions

have you cheated?
Would you cheat?
Does your spouse care if you cheat?
Do you care if your spouse cheats?
open arrangement?

personally i dont link sex and marraige as having to be one and the same so my views are probuably way different than most.

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with all teh patreus stuff got me wondering about affairs [View all] loli phabay Nov 2012 OP

If your spouse does not care if you cheat is it really cheating?? Angry Dragon Nov 2012 #1

no i mean i seperate having sex with just your spouse from marraige, you can be married and still en loli phabay Nov 2012 #4

I understood what you meant Angry Dragon Nov 2012 #5

yup if you play the game sometimes your on the sidelines. like most sports loli phabay Nov 2012 #6

.... Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2012 #2

When married (or even just in a committed, openly-proclaimed monogamous... MiddleFingerMom Nov 2012 #3

good on you MFM Angry Dragon Nov 2012 #7

Cheaters.. HipChick Nov 2012 #8

Personally, living truthfully and honestly to myself and others brings me great happiness riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #9