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GoCubsGo

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75. Me, too, kind of.
Tue Dec 11, 2012, 10:19 AM
Dec 2012

Lost my job of 20 years in 2007. Been trying to survive on seasonal and rare contract work while I watch what's left of my career die a slow death. Can't afford to replace all my ancient stuff (car, appliances, mattress, etc.) that was starting to wear out before I got laid off. Lost 2 of 3 cats since then. Mom suffering from neurological complications of breast cancer, and no longer resembles the person that was my mom. Can't afford to visit. Her care is wearing out my dad, although now my sisters are around to give him a hand. A good friend was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Haven't seen a doctor myself in over 6 years, which is just as well. He/she would probably harp on me for all the weight I gained from stress eating, as if I wasn't aware of it already.

This, too, shall pass. Or, so they say.

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Sending good vibes your way. geardaddy Dec 2012 #1
Thank you friend. eugene jones Dec 2012 #2
Sounds like you need LOTS of hugs Mr Jones riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #3
Thanks a lot, Rider eugene jones Dec 2012 #5
"...I am here to try to regain my equilibrium..." Wait Wut Dec 2012 #4
I'm starting to do this by going tonight... eugene jones Dec 2012 #6
I know that some people think you're HopeHoops, but I know they're wrong. CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2012 #7
Thanks so much, Peggy. eugene jones Dec 2012 #10
SRSLY??? Christ on a pogo stick...this place sometimes. nolabear Dec 2012 #28
There were folks in Meta who either said it, or implied it. CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2012 #29
The Lounge is a good place to find your groove on DU. Hope you find yours Eugene. bluesbassman Dec 2012 #8
Thanks, handsome eugene jones Dec 2012 #11
Sending good vibes and some (possibly unwanted) advice - hedgehog Dec 2012 #9
Thank you for the good advice, hedgehog eugene jones Dec 2012 #12
I'm glad you're here. In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #13
I'm glad you are here too. eugene jones Dec 2012 #14
So sorry to hear about all of your loss and troubles. hrmjustin Dec 2012 #15
And you have a friend in me. eugene jones Dec 2012 #16
Dude graywarrior Dec 2012 #17
. eugene jones Dec 2012 #18
You are in the right spot. the Lounge is supposed to be a friendly place to hang around. Kali Dec 2012 #19
Thanks Kali! eugene jones Dec 2012 #20
... progressoid Dec 2012 #21
I'm very sorry about the loss of your brother. eugene jones Dec 2012 #41
I don't know anything about you, but that's a lot for anyone to deal with. DaniDubois Dec 2012 #22
Thank you very much, Dani. eugene jones Dec 2012 #42
I know it sounds cliche', LeftofObama Dec 2012 #23
Thank you! I wish the best for you too. eugene jones Dec 2012 #43
Thanks for sharing that with us. Baitball Blogger Dec 2012 #24
Well said! hrmjustin Dec 2012 #26
Thanks, Baitball eugene jones Dec 2012 #44
The Lounge is your friend(s) hifiguy Dec 2012 #25
Thank you very much. Great avatar! nt eugene jones Dec 2012 #46
Oh Honey, what a lot to go through at once. I'm sorry. nolabear Dec 2012 #27
Thank you for the kind words... eugene jones Dec 2012 #47
I'm sorry you've had to experience so much trauma Dont call me Shirley Dec 2012 #30
I'm trying to plow thrugh it eugene jones Dec 2012 #48
!!! MiddleFingerMom Dec 2012 #31
Alerting. I'm lerting on this. eugene jones Dec 2012 #49
Sending you big virtual hugs. rivegauche Dec 2012 #32
My best wishes are with you... eugene jones Dec 2012 #50
You have all our sympathies for your difficult path through this time, eugene. calimary Dec 2012 #33
calimary! eugene jones Dec 2012 #51
I hug you and riverbendviewgal Dec 2012 #34
I'm so very sorry. eugene jones Dec 2012 #52
I hope to riverbendviewgal Dec 2012 #73
Oh my. Jaw dropping and heart-wrenching. October Dec 2012 #35
Thank you so much. eugene jones Dec 2012 #53
a friend told me at my son's memorial riverbendviewgal Dec 2012 #74
. eugene jones Dec 2012 #84
i used to have some disassociate issues MrsBrady Dec 2012 #36
I'm going to look into this further MrsBrady eugene jones Dec 2012 #54
I must admit pintobean Dec 2012 #37
Thank you, pintobean eugene jones Dec 2012 #55
Yes, I just noticed that obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #67
You are due . . . Brigid Dec 2012 #38
Brigid, to paraphrase one of the best posters on this site... eugene jones Dec 2012 #56
Hang in there..... Grantuspeace Dec 2012 #39
Very wise words. eugene jones Dec 2012 #57
Depression is something that can affect any one of us Major Nikon Dec 2012 #40
Oh that's so true. eugene jones Dec 2012 #59
I'll leave you with what Loudin Wainwright wrote about his mom Major Nikon Dec 2012 #70
Welcome! rug Dec 2012 #45
Thanks rug! eugene jones Dec 2012 #60
eugene... femmocrat Dec 2012 #58
Thank you, femmocrat eugene jones Dec 2012 #61
Sweet........ Pharaoh Dec 2012 #62
Yes. Thank you, Pharaoh. eugene jones Dec 2012 #81
Good to cry. You've been through a lot. Crying will get you to the applegrove Dec 2012 #63
I wish the best for you eugene jones Dec 2012 #85
All my good vibes to you, Eugene.... Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #64
I wish thaat I had the energy to give this post the response it deserves... eugene jones Dec 2012 #98
Damn, I know exactly what you are going through! Odin2005 Dec 2012 #65
Me, too, kind of. GoCubsGo Dec 2012 #75
Cubs.... eugene jones Dec 2012 #102
Jeez, Odin, I'm so sorry. eugene jones Dec 2012 #87
Hugs. 840high Dec 2012 #66
And back to you. eugene jones Dec 2012 #89
How about some empathy? roody Dec 2012 #68
Hugs, eugene. Waiting For Everyman Dec 2012 #69
Recent...exactly...it all feels recent... eugene jones Dec 2012 #86
From my own experience I can tell you that your mother's death part will fade a lot lunatica Dec 2012 #71
Thank you, lunatica eugene jones Dec 2012 #100
Sometimes seems like it never rains but it pours. May I suggest that you reconsider raccoon Dec 2012 #72
The best to you also, raccoon eugene jones Dec 2012 #101
I just want to say two things. Heidi Dec 2012 #76
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I'm just the opposite... sagetea Dec 2012 #77
This is incredibly comforting eugene jones Dec 2012 #99
You've come to the right place. WilliamPitt Dec 2012 #78
Thanks William eugene jones Dec 2012 #97
Welcome to DU. Call Me Wesley Dec 2012 #79
here is one for you Kali Dec 2012 #82
Thank you, Wesley eugene jones Dec 2012 #83
I'm truly sorry to hear you have had so much turmoil lately. Quantess Dec 2012 #80
Suffering... eugene jones Dec 2012 #93
Hi, eugene jones... OneGrassRoot Dec 2012 #88
Thank you, OneGrassRoot eugene jones Dec 2012 #91
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I know. eugene jones Dec 2012 #96
I will delete the OP and post it below. eugene jones Dec 2012 #103
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