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MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
131. If a person decided that the ONLY way to get someone's vote on a supremely important issue was...
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 08:42 PM
Mar 2013

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... to have sex them, then one MIGHT say that person was "forced" to have sex with him/her.
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Of their own choice and volition and for a noble cause. I think a better wording might have
been, "if you HAD to have sex with a Republican..." (say you lost a bet), but I also think the
intention/connotation would have been as "innocent/unintentional" (if not more so -- but the
non-specifity aspect is the important part).
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Now, I don't think the OP had getting a deciding vote in mind when wording the question...
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... any more than the OP had rape in mind. Sometimes we interpret at the lowest common
denominator... which, if the person had a history of doing that would be a no-brainer.
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Otherwise, it would be worth a benefit-of-the-doubt question such as, "Were you making
light of the use of PHYSICAL force?"
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There are lots of horrible things out there -- contemptible and condemnable things --
without our searching and/or reaching for things that just weren't intentionally introduced.
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Number two... it's not always fair to accuse, judge, and sentence the OP based on changing
"that looks like you might have meant this..." to "you MEANT this... Many religions believe
omniscience to be limited to their god/gods -- I don't know of a single one that believes that
of a person (the Pope?). I see the self-presumption of omniscience far too often in DU threads
(though the dissolution of Meta has thankfully minimizd that, comparatively).
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Number ONE (and FAR more important)... the memory of such specious accusations might, in
the general public's eye, have the effect of diluting the credibility of someone in the future
making what might have ordinarily been an undeniably credible accusation.
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You might tally an "outrage point" now, but you do more harm than good to-and-for others in
the future -- and I KNOW that is not your intent.
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Bobby Jindal - I think he'd make a great bottom TrogL Mar 2013 #1
yikes ! olddots Mar 2013 #3
hmmm.... interesting thought. Agschmid Mar 2013 #30
O.M.F.G. cliffordu Mar 2013 #56
Chuck Hagel graywarrior Mar 2013 #2
Ugggggggh LiberalEsto Mar 2013 #4
Great question ! REACTIVATED IN CT Mar 2013 #5
Define 'force' and 'sex'. Ikonoklast Mar 2013 #6
you will be punished if you don't perform the task olddots Mar 2013 #11
And what if I like being 'punished'. Does that count? Ikonoklast Mar 2013 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #37
do we get to spank them? tk2kewl Mar 2013 #7
My kinda sex or their kinda sex? Myrina Mar 2013 #8
By the way Xyzse Mar 2013 #23
You may 'have no idea' what I'm talking about ... Myrina Mar 2013 #25
I apologize Xyzse Mar 2013 #27
I understood you! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #38
Sex? lunatica Mar 2013 #9
My gun. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #10
can this be a double bagger ? olddots Mar 2013 #13
Shannon Doherty NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #14
so true. forgot all about her La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #17
I thought you had a crush on her? NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #18
i think she was hot in charmed but lost my crush as soon as i found out La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #20
I always preferred NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #29
Jennifer Lawrence is probably a republican. sadbear Mar 2013 #15
Why do you say that? NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #19
I saw some really asinine quotes from her recently. sadbear Mar 2013 #22
that sucks NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #24
I think she's just young and ignorant (among other things....) sadbear Mar 2013 #26
I hope that's it NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #28
That explains my disdain of her. a la izquierda Mar 2013 #39
Yes the idea sharp_stick Mar 2013 #58
Dykey. And "...male hero with a vagina." Cute. a la izquierda Mar 2013 #61
Yes a horrible sharp_stick Mar 2013 #63
Um, disdain and hate aren't the same thing. a la izquierda Mar 2013 #65
What quotes? sharp_stick Mar 2013 #59
Calm down. sadbear Mar 2013 #60
Calm down, really? sharp_stick Mar 2013 #62
You seem to be the one most upset about this. sadbear Mar 2013 #64
My fury is now paramount sharp_stick Mar 2013 #66
angie harmon? La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #16
I was thinking the same one Xyzse Mar 2013 #21
forced to have sex with a republican who would you choose ? Flashmann Mar 2013 #31
I'm stealing grudge bangs olddots Mar 2013 #49
If I were forced to have sex with _anyone_, I'd be reporting a rape, Heidi Mar 2013 #32
!!!, !!!. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #52
I agree. IrishEyes Mar 2013 #68
PA Senator Pat Vance. She's one of the Republican politicians I respect. talkingmime Mar 2013 #33
I used to think Arianna Huffington was pretty hot during her "Strange Bedfellows" days... MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #34
Steve Schmidt. LeftofObama Mar 2013 #35
If I was FORCED to have sex with a Republican, I would choose Hara Kiri...... lastlib Mar 2013 #36
Nope, I'd join a convent. Nt a la izquierda Mar 2013 #40
Quite a few of 'em, and I wouldn't have to be forced, neither. Iggo Mar 2013 #41
There are several on my list as well NewJeffCT Mar 2013 #67
Rather be celibate! DearHeart Mar 2013 #42
Ron Christie HipChick Mar 2013 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author Paul E Ester Mar 2013 #44
If swooning over a fascist is a crime, call me criminal. Paul E Ester Mar 2013 #45
Bo Derek is still pretty hot. MrSlayer Mar 2013 #46
Is Rafalca available? aint_no_life_nowhere Mar 2013 #47
This message was self-deleted by its author Ptah Mar 2013 #48
why no olddots Mar 2013 #50
Well I did have a girlfriend who was a Republican when I was in my 20s davidpdx Mar 2013 #51
Christine O'Donnell Scuba Mar 2013 #53
My choice too HarveyDarkey Mar 2013 #73
Aw, the witch part is cute, doncha think? Scuba Mar 2013 #74
If you end up a newt, don't come slithering through a pond back to DU. Kennah Mar 2013 #138
Pretty face; messed-up mind. dawg Mar 2013 #75
Remember, we're being forced HarveyDarkey Mar 2013 #78
Heather Locklear ArnoldLayne Mar 2013 #54
Is she a Republican? You just ruined my evening! nt stevenleser Mar 2013 #89
Luke Russert....and it would be the best he'd ever had Rowdyboy Mar 2013 #55
LOL BainsBane Mar 2013 #98
I'd bet he couldn't SPELL 'Republican' but he still probably is one. Gidney N Cloyd Mar 2013 #107
That little twerp irritates me BainsBane Mar 2013 #108
Sure comes across as an entitled, pompous gasbag to me.... Rowdyboy Mar 2013 #128
rowdyboy, you'd really be taking one for the team there... irisblue Mar 2013 #106
He's a loathsome little toad but he could maybe get me a show on MSNBC.... Rowdyboy Mar 2013 #124
Ann Coulter. But she would have to shut the fuck up for the entire session. cliffordu Mar 2013 #57
... madinmaryland Mar 2013 #129
I could turn her entire vocabulary into OMFG!!!!! cliffordu Mar 2013 #137
There Aren't Enough Showers in the World! becca da bakkah Mar 2013 #69
Forced sex is rape. Heidi Mar 2013 #70
you completely lost me by following "forced to" with "have sex" struggle4progress Mar 2013 #71
Thank you, struggle4progress. Heidi Mar 2013 #72
I am sorry for my choicee of words olddots Mar 2013 #76
Your poor thing. Couldn't use rape as a comedic device in a progressive community. Heidi Mar 2013 #77
If a person decided that the ONLY way to get someone's vote on a supremely important issue was... MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #131
I'm sorry you feel insulted. IrishEyes Mar 2013 #80
Jeff Foxworthy - at least he'd be good for a laugh too! n/t woodsprite Mar 2013 #79
Mrs. Palmer and her five daughters. RushIsRot Mar 2013 #81
Please show me how to phase a joke correctly olddots Mar 2013 #82
"Who'd you do? Republicans, that is..." WorseBeforeBetter Mar 2013 #93
I couldn't go thru with it olddots Mar 2013 #99
There's nothing wrong with grudge sex... WorseBeforeBetter Mar 2013 #100
Leave out "forced to" and "punished if you don't" as those indicate rape which is not a joke. uppityperson Mar 2013 #102
I would have to go into the.... AnneD Mar 2013 #83
Forced? Can't happen... My body would shut down... Raine1967 Mar 2013 #84
+1 Paul E Ester Mar 2013 #85
Here is my list of Republican women I would have sex with: Jamaal510 Mar 2013 #86
I wish Marco Rubio was a Dem LeftInTX Mar 2013 #87
Ayn Rand :) Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #88
I would rather jump off of a freeway overpass... love_katz Mar 2013 #90
My neighbor Go Vols Mar 2013 #91
Death before dishonor. nt rrneck Mar 2013 #92
Yup. GoCubsGo Mar 2013 #111
I've tried libodem Mar 2013 #94
forgive me ... kwassa Mar 2013 #95
Wow, she's stunning. progressoid Mar 2013 #103
Post removed Post removed Mar 2013 #96
Jim Caviezel BainsBane Mar 2013 #97
hmmm... irisblue Mar 2013 #110
I met him a few years ago. mwdem Mar 2013 #112
You can tell he's tall from TV BainsBane Mar 2013 #119
He seems like a genuinally nice person. mwdem Mar 2013 #121
That would have to be a "last couple on Earth" scenario. bluedigger Mar 2013 #101
reminds me of a comedian from years ago SCantiGOP Mar 2013 #104
S.E. Cupp, Christine O'Donnell or Katherine Harris Taverner Mar 2013 #105
Teddy Roosevelt. nt LWolf Mar 2013 #109
Abe Lincoln Glassunion Mar 2013 #113
Robert Downey Jr. mwdem Mar 2013 #114
he is a republican ??????????????????? olddots Mar 2013 #117
I'm pretty sure he is. mwdem Mar 2013 #118
I thought Republicans were already screwing us. Remmah2 Mar 2013 #115
S.E. Cupp n/t bamacrat Mar 2013 #116
Oh, oh BainsBane Mar 2013 #120
Was going to add Sarah Palin... bamacrat Mar 2013 #122
that's a bit much for me BainsBane Mar 2013 #123
S.E. Cupp's whole act is the sexy librarian look underpants Mar 2013 #125
Marsha Blackburn easily...or... underpants Mar 2013 #126
OMG BainsBane Mar 2013 #127
Obviously, most of you Call Me Wesley Mar 2013 #130
Okay DUers who like levity lets pull the plug on this thread please . olddots Mar 2013 #132
it seems pretty obvious to me Kali Mar 2013 #134
I would have a long time ago if I knew I could olddots Mar 2013 #135
bottom right hand area of the post - red X Kali Mar 2013 #136
Dana Perino. n-t Logical Mar 2013 #133
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