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Locut0s

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35. You want the truth? You probably don't want to know from me but here goes...

Wed May 8, 2013, 06:22 AM

May 2013

I'm 31 and never even kissed a girl, let alone sex. Actually more than that I've never even held hands. Why? It's not because I have a bad personality or am ugly. I've put on more than a pound or two over the years due to depression and self loathing but I still look fairly handsome and I've been told I look quite striking when I've been thinner. I also have a fairly awesome personality as attested to by the few friends I have. I get along with everyone just about and have a great sense of humour. No the issue is life long social anxiety, depression etc...

Anyway what am I looking for? Well assuming that I could actually find someone? All of the above as others have said. In the short term I would be lying if sex wasn't near the top of my list, 31 years without romantic companionship makes one long for it. And porn isn't a good substitute. But in the longer run I want a life companion. Not necessarily marriage and I'm really not interested in children but more than a FWB. I want someone I can truly share my interests with, tell stories to, talk about the news, current events, debate with, just have fun with.

But anyway that's all wishful thinking at this point.

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Are you lookin' for: Love, Sex, Companionship, Fun, FWB ... [View all] In_The_Wind May 2013 OP

well you never can get enough love ..... olddots May 2013 #1

We have lots of DUers who are seeking something. In_The_Wind May 2013 #3

I'm already in a relationship. This is for all of you DUers who are looking! In_The_Wind May 2013 #2

What does 'FWB' mean? I have no idea . . . eom fleur-de-lisa May 2013 #4

Friends with benefits In_The_Wind May 2013 #5

Had to look it up, too jakeXT May 2013 #8

Defining what you are looking for is 1/2 the fun. In_The_Wind May 2013 #13

I'm looking to learn from other people olddots May 2013 #6

Sounds like a wonderful plan for a happy life. In_The_Wind May 2013 #10

All of the above? LadyHawkAZ May 2013 #7

We are lucky in that respect. In_The_Wind May 2013 #11

Great!!! Help me out, Please!! BlancheSplanchnik May 2013 #36

Mostly sex and a decent partner for recreation. Chan790 May 2013 #9

This could be your lucky year! I think there is a single female Duer on the East Coast ... In_The_Wind May 2013 #12

All of that and more. Wouldn't it be nice... nomorenomore08 May 2013 #14

Don't settle for anything less! In_The_Wind May 2013 #15

I hope I am. Don't see why I'd be any less "worthy" than any other random dude, if nothing else... nomorenomore08 May 2013 #16

Let's see if she is reading The DU Lounge threads. In_The_Wind May 2013 #18

OK, you asked for it, so here goes... LeftofObama May 2013 #17

Here is wishing your long long looking time will be shortened to find your mate. In_The_Wind May 2013 #19

Found... Jeff R May 2013 #20

That makes 2 more lucky DUers. In_The_Wind May 2013 #21

Surprise Jeff R May 2013 #22

Actually In_The_Wind May 2013 #23

Pure D case of the dumb-ass Jeff R May 2013 #24

I'll give you a lifetime to make it up to me. In_The_Wind May 2013 #25

Yep Jeff R May 2013 #27

Yes. alarimer May 2013 #26

Are you looking for a man or a woman, help me out here. In_The_Wind May 2013 #29

I have no idea! Newest Reality May 2013 #28

Serendipity shall return In_The_Wind May 2013 #30

Ah! Newest Reality May 2013 #33

No, I'm pretty much covered. I'm lucky that way. nolabear May 2013 #31

That's the greatest! In_The_Wind May 2013 #32

I have most of all that, so I feel pretty lucky ... JustABozoOnThisBus May 2013 #34

You want the truth? You probably don't want to know from me but here goes... Locut0s May 2013 #35