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Agschmid

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19. Nope.

Reply to Doctor_J (Original post)

Sun May 12, 2013, 10:43 AM

May 2013

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A friend of a friend is having an affair. Should we tell our friend? [View all] Doctor_J May 2013 OP

NO In_The_Wind May 2013 #1

No. Boomerproud May 2013 #2

Nope Inkfreak May 2013 #3

My own theory is that the less gossip I hear, and the less gossip I spread, the happier I am struggle4progress May 2013 #4

NO! Absolutely not! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #5

actually.... MrsBrady May 2013 #32

There are always exceptions...of course! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #37

no, just no, cause it will put you in the middle of something boston bean May 2013 #6

No. RevStPatrick May 2013 #7

MYOFB HarveyDarkey May 2013 #8

In this case, no... Phentex May 2013 #9

No NV Whino May 2013 #10

This is way way out of friendship range. irisblue May 2013 #11

How do they treat their spouses? Baitball Blogger May 2013 #12

No. Loryn May 2013 #13

No. sarge43 May 2013 #14

Only if you want to end up in the middle of a major blowup. hobbit709 May 2013 #15

No. Arkansas Granny May 2013 #16

Unless you want them as enemies - HELL NO! Pathwalker May 2013 #17

Not unless you want to cause a whole lot of drama and problems. nolabear May 2013 #18

Nope. Agschmid May 2013 #19

Having been the unsuspecting spouse, LWolf May 2013 #20

I tend to agree with you, LWolf. Laurian May 2013 #22

Yes. LWolf May 2013 #25

And here's the problem... pipi_k May 2013 #27

Please forgive me, but I have a really strong desire ... dawg May 2013 #23

I forgive you. LWolf May 2013 #24

We don't really know the betrayed spouse. Doctor_J May 2013 #26

Then I would say it's up to them, LWolf May 2013 #29

telling the friends of the spouse is a no no. boston bean May 2013 #28

Yes. LWolf May 2013 #30

If the second set of friends who know the spouse do not know boston bean May 2013 #31

+1 n/t MrsBrady May 2013 #33

remember the song " Whose making love ? " olddots May 2013 #21

I'd never tell. None of my business. BlueJazz May 2013 #34

not unless the person having the affair mysuzuki2 May 2013 #35

No! Flashmann May 2013 #36

No. RILib May 2013 #38