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riderinthestorm

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14. Oh Taverner, I am so so very sorry about this.

Reply to Taverner (Original post)

Sun Oct 20, 2013, 10:45 AM

Oct 2013

((((vibes)))) coming towards you for peace, clarity of mind as you make hard decisions, and a lot of love surrounding you as your dad finds his way....

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Went to my dad's house to look for his will [View all] Taverner Oct 2013 OP

See if you can find an Advance Health Care Directive, a Lining Will, or a Health Care Proxy. rug Oct 2013 #1

I did - and he did not check live or die... Taverner Oct 2013 #2

Yup. rug Oct 2013 #3

Yes, my mom first...but she abdicated this Taverner Oct 2013 #4

Ok, you'll know what to do. rug Oct 2013 #6

I just want to know what my dad wants Taverner Oct 2013 #7

The question uually comes down to prognosis and pain. rug Oct 2013 #8

"Just get as many solid facts as you can now." Taverner Oct 2013 #9

Having everyone abdicate it and leave it on you is not fair davidpdx Oct 2013 #13

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Blue_In_AK Oct 2013 #5

Does he have a living will? My dad didn't want a feeding B Calm Oct 2013 #10

I'm so sorry for your troubles - hedgehog Oct 2013 #11

no one's advice here handmade34 Oct 2013 #12

Oh Taverner, I am so so very sorry about this. riderinthestorm Oct 2013 #14

Process is important. Gather information and talk it through with mom and brother Justice Oct 2013 #15

If it's up to you......don't ever think you made a wrong decision. a kennedy Oct 2013 #16

I just want what dad wants Taverner Oct 2013 #17