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murielm99

(32,872 posts) Mon Mar 30, 2015, 11:16 PM Mar 2015

My son-in-law just died. [View all]

My daughter went to the house and found him. He had a heart attack. He was 52, she is 35. They had been together for a few years, but married less than two years.

He was a wonderful man, and they were perfect for each other. I am in the Midwest, and trying to get to Mass. as soon as possible. This is so unexpected and horrible.

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My son-in-law just died. [View all] murielm99 Mar 2015 OP

How awful! My condolences to you and your daughter. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2015 #1

Oh, I am so very sorry. KMOD Mar 2015 #2

I'm so sorry. Joe Shlabotnik Mar 2015 #3

.... DeSwiss Mar 2015 #4

So, so tragic, murielm99. Laffy Kat Mar 2015 #5

Oh, no. UrbScotty Mar 2015 #6

I am sorry for your loss. Jenoch Mar 2015 #7

Condolences to you and your family. TexasTowelie Mar 2015 #8

I'm so sorry to hear that. Aerows Mar 2015 #9

So Sorry, muriel~ Cha Mar 2015 #10

I'm so sorry, muriel. Suich Mar 2015 #11

My thoughts are with you & your family lovemydog Mar 2015 #12

Oh, I'm so sorry laundry_queen Mar 2015 #13

my husband died of a massive heart attack when he was 42... chillfactor Mar 2015 #14

I was a widow at 27, murielm99 Mar 2015 #20

He probably didn't even know he'd died LittleBlue Mar 2015 #15

Condolences to you, your daughter, your son-in-laws family and friends & everyone who Ghost in the Machine Mar 2015 #16

Very sorry for your and your daughter's loss tomm2thumbs Mar 2015 #17

I just lost two as well. sheshe2 Mar 2015 #18

You lost two!? Condolences to you as well, SheShe2... villager Mar 2015 #24

I cry with you, villager. sheshe2 Mar 2015 #25

Oh... I was replying to your statement that you'd "lost two!" villager Mar 2015 #43

Within a little over a week... sheshe2 Mar 2015 #46

I can only imagine, sheshe, having *almost* lost two within a month... villager Mar 2015 #70

villager~ sheshe2 Mar 2015 #88

So sorry for your loss! It is so hard to see akbacchus_BC Mar 2015 #27

When you get there pass our condolences to her Half-Century Man Mar 2015 #19

I am so sorry for your loss and my heart akbacchus_BC Mar 2015 #21

Condolences seem so inadequate at times like this. Especially for something so out-of-left-field. villager Mar 2015 #22

So sorry for your loss, murielm99. My condolences to you and your daughter. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #23

Hey murielm. sheshe2 Mar 2015 #26

Thank you sheshe. murielm99 Mar 2015 #35

I am so very sorry, murielm99. pnwmom Mar 2015 #28

my heartfelt sympathies steve2470 Mar 2015 #29

I'm so sorry for your loss. Unknown Beatle Mar 2015 #30

My deepest condolences to you and your daughter, my dear murielm99... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2015 #31

() Jack Rabbit Mar 2015 #32

I'm so terribly sorry for your loss Hekate Mar 2015 #33

I am so sorry! My very best thoughts to all the family. LeftishBrit Mar 2015 #34

I'm very sorry to hear this... SoapBox Mar 2015 #36

I'm am very sorry about the loss of your Mom. KMOD Mar 2015 #86

...sending you and your daughter love & sympathy... orleans Mar 2015 #37

...... daleanime Mar 2015 #38

All the best to you and your family, especially your daughter. JDPriestly Mar 2015 #39

I'm so sorry, murielm99. My best thoughts and condolences are petronius Mar 2015 #40

Oh, no- what a shame. We get up in the morning and get dressed, with no idea we won't be here at the NBachers Mar 2015 #41

:( sakabatou Mar 2015 #42

Sorry for your loss, murielm99. Enthusiast Mar 2015 #44

So sad. My sympathy for your daughter and for you. No Vested Interest Mar 2015 #45

My condolences for your loss. and for your daughter's. ND-Dem Mar 2015 #47

My condolences to your family. Moostache Mar 2015 #48

I am so sorry irisblue Mar 2015 #49

Awful. I'm sorry. byronius Mar 2015 #50

So sorry for your loss. progressoid Mar 2015 #51

Oh no... a la izquierda Mar 2015 #52

Thank you everyone. murielm99 Mar 2015 #53

I am so sorry for your loss and the sudden, horrible shock for your daughter. mnhtnbb Mar 2015 #54

Courage to face this trial...sympathy to all the family. Surya Gayatri Mar 2015 #55

How awful My Good Babushka Mar 2015 #56

Hugs. Scuba Mar 2015 #57

How horrible for you! My deepest sympathies. DFW Mar 2015 #58

So sorry, Muriel mike dub Mar 2015 #59

I am so sorry. bigwillq Mar 2015 #60

Rec for visibility - TBF Mar 2015 #61

I am so sorry for your loss, murielm99. brer cat Mar 2015 #62

Just terrible, esp since they had such a new marriage. My condolences to you and Nay Mar 2015 #63

My deep condolences to your daughter and you LiberalEsto Mar 2015 #64

My deepest condolences for your family's loss. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2015 #65

I am very sorry. MosheFeingold Mar 2015 #66

My deepest sympathies to you and your daughter. Coventina Mar 2015 #67

So sorry for the loss of your family member... Tom_Foolery Mar 2015 #68

My deepest sympathy muriel. What an awful shock. riderinthestorm Mar 2015 #69

Son-in-law... Dont call me Shirley Mar 2015 #71

... shenmue Mar 2015 #72

horrible shock rurallib Mar 2015 #73

I'm so sorry for your loss A Little Weird Mar 2015 #74

My heart hurts for you and your family. raven mad Mar 2015 #75

Oh no-- I'm so very sorry, muriel ailsagirl Mar 2015 #76

My sincere condolences to your family, muriel. femmocrat Mar 2015 #77

I am sorry, that is awful news. redwitch Mar 2015 #78

I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you can get there quickly without too much trouble. Iris Mar 2015 #79

I am so sorry for you and your daughter, and for his whole family. raging moderate Mar 2015 #80

So young! Very sorry for your loss. cyberswede Mar 2015 #81

((((((((murielm99)))))) so very sorry for this terrible loss. please know that your du family niyad Mar 2015 #82

I am so sorry for your loss Generic Brad Mar 2015 #83

I am sorry. RiffRandell Mar 2015 #84

My sincere condolences for your loss. derby378 Mar 2015 #85

I am so sorry. Lifelong Protester Mar 2015 #87

I am so very sorry, murielm99. SalmonChantedEvening Apr 2015 #89