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mnhtnbb

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54. I am so sorry for your loss and the sudden, horrible shock for your daughter.

Tue Mar 31, 2015, 06:06 AM

Mar 2015

Hope you can make arrangements to get to your daughter easily. She will
be needing all the support she can get.

We had a friend who dropped dead of a massive heart attack when he was 49--an ER doc--
working out at a hotel. Two surgeons were working out next to him, so he had CPR before
he was even on the floor, to no effect. So, sometimes, there is just nothing that can be done.
Don't let your daughter beat herself up with "maybe if I'd been there" kind of thinking.

I am so, so sorry for you and your family.

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My son-in-law just died. [View all] murielm99 Mar 2015 OP

How awful! My condolences to you and your daughter. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2015 #1

Oh, I am so very sorry. KMOD Mar 2015 #2

I'm so sorry. Joe Shlabotnik Mar 2015 #3

.... DeSwiss Mar 2015 #4

So, so tragic, murielm99. Laffy Kat Mar 2015 #5

Oh, no. UrbScotty Mar 2015 #6

I am sorry for your loss. Jenoch Mar 2015 #7

Condolences to you and your family. TexasTowelie Mar 2015 #8

I'm so sorry to hear that. Aerows Mar 2015 #9

So Sorry, muriel~ Cha Mar 2015 #10

I'm so sorry, muriel. Suich Mar 2015 #11

My thoughts are with you & your family lovemydog Mar 2015 #12

Oh, I'm so sorry laundry_queen Mar 2015 #13

my husband died of a massive heart attack when he was 42... chillfactor Mar 2015 #14

I was a widow at 27, murielm99 Mar 2015 #20

He probably didn't even know he'd died LittleBlue Mar 2015 #15

Condolences to you, your daughter, your son-in-laws family and friends & everyone who Ghost in the Machine Mar 2015 #16

Very sorry for your and your daughter's loss tomm2thumbs Mar 2015 #17

I just lost two as well. sheshe2 Mar 2015 #18

You lost two!? Condolences to you as well, SheShe2... villager Mar 2015 #24

I cry with you, villager. sheshe2 Mar 2015 #25

Oh... I was replying to your statement that you'd "lost two!" villager Mar 2015 #43

Within a little over a week... sheshe2 Mar 2015 #46

I can only imagine, sheshe, having *almost* lost two within a month... villager Mar 2015 #70

villager~ sheshe2 Mar 2015 #88

So sorry for your loss! It is so hard to see akbacchus_BC Mar 2015 #27

When you get there pass our condolences to her Half-Century Man Mar 2015 #19

I am so sorry for your loss and my heart akbacchus_BC Mar 2015 #21

Condolences seem so inadequate at times like this. Especially for something so out-of-left-field. villager Mar 2015 #22

So sorry for your loss, murielm99. My condolences to you and your daughter. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #23

Hey murielm. sheshe2 Mar 2015 #26

Thank you sheshe. murielm99 Mar 2015 #35

I am so very sorry, murielm99. pnwmom Mar 2015 #28

my heartfelt sympathies steve2470 Mar 2015 #29

I'm so sorry for your loss. Unknown Beatle Mar 2015 #30

My deepest condolences to you and your daughter, my dear murielm99... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2015 #31

() Jack Rabbit Mar 2015 #32

I'm so terribly sorry for your loss Hekate Mar 2015 #33

I am so sorry! My very best thoughts to all the family. LeftishBrit Mar 2015 #34

I'm very sorry to hear this... SoapBox Mar 2015 #36

I'm am very sorry about the loss of your Mom. KMOD Mar 2015 #86

...sending you and your daughter love & sympathy... orleans Mar 2015 #37

...... daleanime Mar 2015 #38

All the best to you and your family, especially your daughter. JDPriestly Mar 2015 #39

I'm so sorry, murielm99. My best thoughts and condolences are petronius Mar 2015 #40

Oh, no- what a shame. We get up in the morning and get dressed, with no idea we won't be here at the NBachers Mar 2015 #41

:( sakabatou Mar 2015 #42

Sorry for your loss, murielm99. Enthusiast Mar 2015 #44

So sad. My sympathy for your daughter and for you. No Vested Interest Mar 2015 #45

My condolences for your loss. and for your daughter's. ND-Dem Mar 2015 #47

My condolences to your family. Moostache Mar 2015 #48

I am so sorry irisblue Mar 2015 #49

Awful. I'm sorry. byronius Mar 2015 #50

So sorry for your loss. progressoid Mar 2015 #51

Oh no... a la izquierda Mar 2015 #52

Thank you everyone. murielm99 Mar 2015 #53

I am so sorry for your loss and the sudden, horrible shock for your daughter. mnhtnbb Mar 2015 #54

Courage to face this trial...sympathy to all the family. Surya Gayatri Mar 2015 #55

How awful My Good Babushka Mar 2015 #56

Hugs. Scuba Mar 2015 #57

How horrible for you! My deepest sympathies. DFW Mar 2015 #58

So sorry, Muriel mike dub Mar 2015 #59

I am so sorry. bigwillq Mar 2015 #60

Rec for visibility - TBF Mar 2015 #61

I am so sorry for your loss, murielm99. brer cat Mar 2015 #62

Just terrible, esp since they had such a new marriage. My condolences to you and Nay Mar 2015 #63

My deep condolences to your daughter and you LiberalEsto Mar 2015 #64

My deepest condolences for your family's loss. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2015 #65

I am very sorry. MosheFeingold Mar 2015 #66

My deepest sympathies to you and your daughter. Coventina Mar 2015 #67

So sorry for the loss of your family member... Tom_Foolery Mar 2015 #68

My deepest sympathy muriel. What an awful shock. riderinthestorm Mar 2015 #69

Son-in-law... Dont call me Shirley Mar 2015 #71

... shenmue Mar 2015 #72

horrible shock rurallib Mar 2015 #73

I'm so sorry for your loss A Little Weird Mar 2015 #74

My heart hurts for you and your family. raven mad Mar 2015 #75

Oh no-- I'm so very sorry, muriel ailsagirl Mar 2015 #76

My sincere condolences to your family, muriel. femmocrat Mar 2015 #77

I am sorry, that is awful news. redwitch Mar 2015 #78

I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you can get there quickly without too much trouble. Iris Mar 2015 #79

I am so sorry for you and your daughter, and for his whole family. raging moderate Mar 2015 #80

So young! Very sorry for your loss. cyberswede Mar 2015 #81

((((((((murielm99)))))) so very sorry for this terrible loss. please know that your du family niyad Mar 2015 #82

I am so sorry for your loss Generic Brad Mar 2015 #83

I am sorry. RiffRandell Mar 2015 #84

My sincere condolences for your loss. derby378 Mar 2015 #85

I am so sorry. Lifelong Protester Mar 2015 #87

I am so very sorry, murielm99. SalmonChantedEvening Apr 2015 #89