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mnhtnbb

(31,731 posts)
3. Friends do come and go
Sat Jun 18, 2016, 06:56 AM
Jun 2016

it's sad, but it happens.

We've lived in this neighborhood (a dead end street) for 16 years--except for the year we rented after the fire--and recently became the "senior" couple with
the most years in the neighborhood when an elderly couple who were original owners of their house moved to a retirement community.

We have invited neighbors to parties at our house three times since the fire (2007) and not once has any of them reciprocated. We chat when
I run into people while out walking the dog, and our next door neighbor will gather our newspapers when we're out of town, so we're "friendly"
but not "friends" with the neighbors. It seems to be others aren't interested in getting any closer than that.

None of 'em. In_The_Wind Jun 2016 #1
Thanks..... a kennedy Jun 2016 #2
Friends do come and go mnhtnbb Jun 2016 #3
None. Not for a long time, anyhow. femmocrat Jun 2016 #4
Hell, I'm not sure I consider real family to be "family"... Wounded Bear Jun 2016 #5
*hugs* a kennedy Jun 2016 #6
None. LWolf Jun 2016 #7
She sounds like a gem.......NOT. Isn't that funny there always seems to be one a kennedy Jun 2016 #9
Three families. trof Jun 2016 #8
I'm jealous........eom a kennedy Jun 2016 #10
It's not quite family here... dixiegrrrrl Jun 2016 #11
Sounds like a perfect place........ a kennedy Jun 2016 #13
Small towns...find yourself a small town, preferably in the South dixiegrrrrl Jun 2016 #16
I am sorry about your ex friend... Phentex Jun 2016 #12
Thanks.......just miss her so much. a kennedy Jun 2016 #14
HAD 2, years ago @ home in DC, elleng Jun 2016 #15
been here since 77 onethatcares Jun 2016 #17
What's with the neighbors to the west? ailsagirl Jun 2016 #18
I did some work for them onethatcares Jun 2016 #20
I'm sorry to hear that ailsagirl Jun 2016 #21
Back when I was growing up, neighbors were the old-fashioned kind ailsagirl Jun 2016 #19
Sadly, none. OriginalGeek Jun 2016 #22
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