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bigwillq

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12. I wouldn't waste my time

Reply to mrmpa (Original post)

Sun Jul 17, 2016, 09:17 PM

Jul 2016

I would never contact him again.

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Okay update on my first date in 24 years.......... [View all] mrmpa Jul 2016 OP

"I really like you" is not scary. Give the guy another chance. It seems this time was a comedy of patricia92243 Jul 2016 #1

Keep in mind he might have been having a bit of anxiety. Newly widowed, first dates, underahedgerow Jul 2016 #2

Isn't he a very recent widower? I really like you seems fast to me irisblue Jul 2016 #3

We're in the same organization....... mrmpa Jul 2016 #4

so you had a chance to check him out? irisblue Jul 2016 #6

I've known him for about 6 years........ mrmpa Jul 2016 #7

I am having the exact opposite reaction. 3catwoman3 Jul 2016 #5

If she wanted to be unoffensive Marthe48 Jul 2016 #8

You did the right thing going home. Block all contact from him. lindysalsagal Jul 2016 #10

Having been out there in the dating scene as an older adult womanofthehills Jul 2016 #18

Try again Marthe48 Jul 2016 #9

Your gut advice is the only advice you should seek or follow lunatica Jul 2016 #11

I wouldn't waste my time bigwillq Jul 2016 #12

He made the situation far more difficult than it had to be, and that's a bad sign. Yavin4 Jul 2016 #13

As I recall, his wife just recently died. Did he get cold feet? LisaL Jul 2016 #14

This is spot on......something is just not right......trust your first thought....not comfortable, a kennedy Jul 2016 #15

Run. hamsterjill Jul 2016 #16

Meet at a restaurant next time. Much safer all around. yellowcanine Jul 2016 #17

I've known him about 6 years....n/t mrmpa Jul 2016 #19

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