Michigan

angstlessk

(11,862 posts) Tue Aug 1, 2017, 04:35 PM Aug 2017

I need a man to replace the man who lives in my house! [View all]

In DETROIT!!

He often threatens to kill me...he has become the most racist black person I have known since he moved from Virginia to Detroit...

And he thinks he is a slave...though all the income mine?

I used to be a regular person when the kitchen was available...then he would microwave a meal or two...then it was all sandwiches...now he thinks if he produces a sandwich he is a slave?

All the income is mine, but I put all into a joint account..he has access to all money

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I need a man to replace the man who lives in my house! [View all] angstlessk Aug 2017 OP

You don't need a man. You need to get your own life. SharonAnn Aug 2017 #1

Get help. Seriously. Get off DU and contact the police and shelters. bettyellen Aug 2017 #2

When we moved here everything was wondweful angstlessk Aug 2017 #4

He brought in two kittens... angstlessk Aug 2017 #5

You said he's threatening your life, so make a move. bettyellen Aug 2017 #7

He always threatenes my life...thought it was recorded angstlessk Aug 2017 #8

t A TEMP SHELTER...THEN WHERE? angstlessk Aug 2017 #15

Here's the deal angstlessk Aug 2017 #3

You have $6,000 cash on hand for clean-up? Croney Aug 2017 #29

Hoarders, yes... angstlessk Aug 2017 #32

But $6,000 should buy you a lot of help. Croney Aug 2017 #34

Yes...I would give my left nut (oops I ain't a man) left tit! angstlessk Aug 2017 #33

Call 1-800-GOT-JUNK. Croney Aug 2017 #36

Funny, funny angstlessk Aug 2017 #37

Why is that funny? Croney Aug 2017 #38

It's not...and thank you...I just contacted a hoarder removal company angstlessk Aug 2017 #39

Good. Croney Aug 2017 #42

Get him out now. zipplewrath Aug 2017 #6

I don't want to get out...this is MY home angstlessk Aug 2017 #9

You said it's a rental, and you're paying for it all- there's nothing keeping you. bettyellen Aug 2017 #10

It's not a rental...I own the house angstlessk Aug 2017 #11

Contact a lawyer and then the police and get him out. YOU have to do this. No one else. bettyellen Aug 2017 #14

I hate to say this but if he is the only one to ever leave the house Doreen Aug 2017 #40

Which is why you need to get HIM out zipplewrath Aug 2017 #46

Why do you need another man to replace him? You can't live without a man in your house? Doodley Aug 2017 #12

A woman's shelter is temporary..I could walk to the hospital angstlessk Aug 2017 #13

Can you give some more details, please. Is he drinking, taking drugs? Do you own the Doodley Aug 2017 #16

I own my home, he has not hit me for years..he is violent in threats and gestures angstlessk Aug 2017 #17

I am sorry you are in such a difficult situation. Do you want a friend or friends? You could put an Doodley Aug 2017 #48

Ok, you posted a similar thread just a couple of days ago, with 77 replies procon Aug 2017 #18

I want to stay in my house...why should I leave? angstlessk Aug 2017 #19

You were provided with many, many options and resources. procon Aug 2017 #21

I envision me walking to the hospital...if I can? I don't know angstlessk Aug 2017 #22

You just don't know my life... angstlessk Aug 2017 #23

I know that you are avoiding answering questions and seem very reluctant procon Aug 2017 #25

Agencies who can help do exactly what? angstlessk Aug 2017 #30

You'll never know if you don't contact them. nt procon Aug 2017 #31

As I said in my post above if you do not have his name on the ownership you can Doreen Aug 2017 #41

It's your home, put it up for sale and find another home. AJT Aug 2017 #52

What if he went to jail for 3 months and I hired folks to clean up this mess? angstlessk Aug 2017 #20

Where do women go AFTER shelter? angstlessk Aug 2017 #24

You have no friends or relatives other than him? Wednesdays Aug 2017 #26

This is MY house...I have to leave and look for charity? angstlessk Aug 2017 #28

If you need help and want to keep the house contact a divorce lawyer and bettyellen Aug 2017 #27

Divorce would be easy...we are not married! angstlessk Aug 2017 #35

You're not married ? Sedona Aug 2017 #43

To add to your comment she can get a restraining order. Doreen Aug 2017 #45

How many years have you been together? Doreen Aug 2017 #44

20 years? angstlessk Aug 2017 #50

Wow, that is a long time to put up with that crap. Doreen Aug 2017 #51

No common law marriage in Michigan marylandblue Aug 2017 #53

I see that and it is very unfortunate. Doreen Aug 2017 #55

Here ya go...when we first got here I noticed the toilet was lose angstlessk Aug 2017 #47

Do you/did you love him? Doodley Aug 2017 #49

Once upon a time angstlessk Aug 2017 #54

He just kicked the other kitten out...he wants to hurt me angstlessk Aug 2017 #56

Time to call the police and a locksmith. bettyellen Aug 2017 #57

I am a former domestic violence counselor. secondwind Aug 2017 #58

YOU need to listen to the advice you have been given in TWO separate posts you have made .. AND... auntAgonist Aug 2017 #59