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auntAgonist

(17,252 posts)
59. YOU need to listen to the advice you have been given in TWO separate posts you have made .. AND...
Thu Aug 10, 2017, 06:45 PM
Aug 2017

please for heaven's sake won't you remove that little bug that you have going around in circles on the lower left side of the communication area. It is most distracting and for those of us with health issues it literally can make us sick. IE: for some, seizures for others dizziness and for yet another group of people physically tossing our cookies.

It's hard to go through the thread and try to work up a helpful answer for you or reiterate what someone else has said when your brain thinks heaving would be better.

I'm sorry for what you're going through. You're not paying attention to the folks who have given you EXCELLENT scenarios and advice. YOU must help yourself. NO one is going to do it for you. It just doesn't work that way.

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You don't need a man. You need to get your own life. SharonAnn Aug 2017 #1
Get help. Seriously. Get off DU and contact the police and shelters. bettyellen Aug 2017 #2
When we moved here everything was wondweful angstlessk Aug 2017 #4
He brought in two kittens... angstlessk Aug 2017 #5
You said he's threatening your life, so make a move. bettyellen Aug 2017 #7
He always threatenes my life...thought it was recorded angstlessk Aug 2017 #8
t A TEMP SHELTER...THEN WHERE? angstlessk Aug 2017 #15
Here's the deal angstlessk Aug 2017 #3
You have $6,000 cash on hand for clean-up? Croney Aug 2017 #29
Hoarders, yes... angstlessk Aug 2017 #32
But $6,000 should buy you a lot of help. Croney Aug 2017 #34
Yes...I would give my left nut (oops I ain't a man) left tit! angstlessk Aug 2017 #33
Call 1-800-GOT-JUNK. Croney Aug 2017 #36
Funny, funny angstlessk Aug 2017 #37
Why is that funny? Croney Aug 2017 #38
It's not...and thank you...I just contacted a hoarder removal company angstlessk Aug 2017 #39
Good. Croney Aug 2017 #42
Get him out now. zipplewrath Aug 2017 #6
I don't want to get out...this is MY home angstlessk Aug 2017 #9
You said it's a rental, and you're paying for it all- there's nothing keeping you. bettyellen Aug 2017 #10
It's not a rental...I own the house angstlessk Aug 2017 #11
Contact a lawyer and then the police and get him out. YOU have to do this. No one else. bettyellen Aug 2017 #14
I hate to say this but if he is the only one to ever leave the house Doreen Aug 2017 #40
Which is why you need to get HIM out zipplewrath Aug 2017 #46
Why do you need another man to replace him? You can't live without a man in your house? Doodley Aug 2017 #12
A woman's shelter is temporary..I could walk to the hospital angstlessk Aug 2017 #13
Can you give some more details, please. Is he drinking, taking drugs? Do you own the Doodley Aug 2017 #16
I own my home, he has not hit me for years..he is violent in threats and gestures angstlessk Aug 2017 #17
I am sorry you are in such a difficult situation. Do you want a friend or friends? You could put an Doodley Aug 2017 #48
Ok, you posted a similar thread just a couple of days ago, with 77 replies procon Aug 2017 #18
I want to stay in my house...why should I leave? angstlessk Aug 2017 #19
You were provided with many, many options and resources. procon Aug 2017 #21
I envision me walking to the hospital...if I can? I don't know angstlessk Aug 2017 #22
You just don't know my life... angstlessk Aug 2017 #23
I know that you are avoiding answering questions and seem very reluctant procon Aug 2017 #25
Agencies who can help do exactly what? angstlessk Aug 2017 #30
You'll never know if you don't contact them. nt procon Aug 2017 #31
As I said in my post above if you do not have his name on the ownership you can Doreen Aug 2017 #41
It's your home, put it up for sale and find another home. AJT Aug 2017 #52
What if he went to jail for 3 months and I hired folks to clean up this mess? angstlessk Aug 2017 #20
Where do women go AFTER shelter? angstlessk Aug 2017 #24
You have no friends or relatives other than him? Wednesdays Aug 2017 #26
This is MY house...I have to leave and look for charity? angstlessk Aug 2017 #28
If you need help and want to keep the house contact a divorce lawyer and bettyellen Aug 2017 #27
Divorce would be easy...we are not married! angstlessk Aug 2017 #35
You're not married ? Sedona Aug 2017 #43
To add to your comment she can get a restraining order. Doreen Aug 2017 #45
How many years have you been together? Doreen Aug 2017 #44
20 years? angstlessk Aug 2017 #50
Wow, that is a long time to put up with that crap. Doreen Aug 2017 #51
No common law marriage in Michigan marylandblue Aug 2017 #53
I see that and it is very unfortunate. Doreen Aug 2017 #55
Here ya go...when we first got here I noticed the toilet was lose angstlessk Aug 2017 #47
Do you/did you love him? Doodley Aug 2017 #49
Once upon a time angstlessk Aug 2017 #54
He just kicked the other kitten out...he wants to hurt me angstlessk Aug 2017 #56
Time to call the police and a locksmith. bettyellen Aug 2017 #57
I am a former domestic violence counselor. secondwind Aug 2017 #58
YOU need to listen to the advice you have been given in TWO separate posts you have made .. AND... auntAgonist Aug 2017 #59
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