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JustAnotherGen

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22. I would have to see
Sun Dec 28, 2014, 08:56 AM
Dec 2014

Where someone identifying as gay or Jewish was used to dismiss the concerns of black people.

There was a thread started yesterday by someone who does identify as homosexual. He/She didn't respond to any of my comments in that thread. And the op was just as bad as another one started by an older Caucasian woman on Friday.

But around DU - I find that to be "not the norm".

Very often I found that other " the others" have a tremendously huge sensitivity chip.

And by clarifying how they have experienced America themselves - they are strong allies and show time and again they have our backs.

ONE poster started a rotten thread and used their sexuality as weapon against our voices yesterday.

If that's the thread that sparked this op ( and I think it is) - your question is a fair one for that poster.

The last thing we need is division amongst others.

Now that said - I saw my father's transformation. He was always accepting of gays and he loved women. But he was a Special Forces Army officer that entered the military in the late 1950's. A time when it was still very tough to be a black man in the military. And adopted beliefs/views he had to adopt in order to survive and move up.

But in his 50's he shifted. DADT disgusted him. As did Tailhook.


And I think I saw a shooting star the night New York legalized same sex marriage.

And the day Tammy Duckworth got elected - was as exciting for him as the night Obama got elected.

I'm sharing this because he had a HUGE sensitivity chip for "the others" and women's issues. Everyone should be able to serve their country honorably - be it in the military, community service, activism.

Don't let one disruptor with a nasty op make you think that this is the norm.

A storm is coming - and we need the help of the GLBT community, feminists, Jews, Muslims, Native Americans, Asians, Hispanic/Latinos-as.

I won't respond to that OP with this - but you need to kick it up, ask the question, and let the chips fall where they may.

Together we can get lower income and middle class white men on board with fair pay and an equal chance at prosperity. Infighting won't foster confidence in that group.

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Regarding Race and Ethnicity in the USA [View all] Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 OP
I have no idea. bravenak Dec 2014 #1
There was a couple of intersting points brought up that I would like to pursue but, I can't see Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #4
They do make sense but they minimize the damage to the non dominant populations. bravenak Dec 2014 #16
I think the crux of misunderstanding is the way POWER plays into it and seems some Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #17
I read it and I am also confused. bravenak Dec 2014 #18
I think I come here looking for affirmation/confirmation/validation about my own Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #19
We all do that. bravenak Dec 2014 #20
I think the term "appropriation" is being misused in those threads ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2014 #32
interesting point and I think it is why I related to the comment about Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Behind the Aegis Dec 2014 #6
Yes, divide and conquer is what I witnessed today. Thank you. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #8
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check your PM. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #11
I haven't seen that. marym625 Dec 2014 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author Behind the Aegis Dec 2014 #3
I never said Race was the ONLY culture. n/t Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author Behind the Aegis Dec 2014 #7
a false question, I have never heard of such a thing. Please enlighten me. And, I can not Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author Behind the Aegis Dec 2014 #12
discussing it is one thing but using it to make light of another's appropriation is what I don't Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #13
Interesting....because it seems to be a "dimmisive" attitude I see in your OP. Behind the Aegis Dec 2014 #14
again, the mentioning of it WITH the attitude of the posters in regards to the subject matter. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #15
I was trying to figure out what you are saying marym625 Dec 2014 #21
I would have to see JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #22
That was the thread. bravenak Dec 2014 #25
Wait - Elvis? JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #26
Aw man!! bravenak Dec 2014 #27
Jokes on them! JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #28
That is exactly why I stayed the fuck out of that shit!! bravenak Dec 2014 #29
I just bumped up a Carolina thread JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #30
I'll check it out. bravenak Dec 2014 #31
I'm learning more about Melungeons by the week Number23 Dec 2014 #40
A DUer wrote a book about the Melungeons. Have you read it yet? Hekate Jan 2015 #41
And Regarding Working Class White Men . . . JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #23
That is one of my favorite people on DU. He is a Treasure. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #24
I'll try. LWolf Dec 2014 #34
my problem/issue with all this Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #35
How many things LWolf Dec 2014 #36
and how tolerant should DU3, be as a whole, when we see this happen = Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2014 #37
DU3 tolerates many things that I don't. LWolf Dec 2014 #38
I am particularly fond of the posters that barge into every race thread to talk about how if xx was Number23 Dec 2014 #39
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